幸福人生读后感.txt明骚易躲，暗贱难防。佛祖曰：你俩就是大傻B！当白天又一次把黑夜按翻在床上的时候，太阳就出生了我有幸阅读了蔡礼旭老师的《如何经营幸福人生》一书，确实使我受益匪浅。

中华民族有5000年的悠久灿烂的文明史，中华民族能维系几千年不衰，而未被世界淘汰，无疑是其传统文化教育产生的巨大力量。中国传统的圣贤教育一直占主导地位，是美好的传统教育，它教给我们什么是道?认识超越时空的大自然运行法则，此之谓道;它教给我们什么是德?人类如何顺从大自然的法则，不违越的做人，此之谓德。它也让我们知道，人与人之间的秘诀。父子——父慈子孝，君臣——君使臣以礼，臣事君以忠，夫妇——男女有别，男主外，女主内，夫妻能各尽本分，兄弟——长幼有序，兄弟姐妹和睦友爱，朋友——人与人之间交往，守信用，进道义。人的一生都离不开这五种关系。蔡老师告诉我们顺应五伦之道是做人的根基，如果违背了五伦的自然关系，人就难以立身处事;家庭不和;社会秩序混乱、道德沦丧;国家失去了安定兴盛的人道根本。这些都是简单的道理，却又是人伦大道，存在着许许多多的学问。本书就以五伦课题为中心的中国传统教育总纲，让我们细细地去领悟其中的真实智慧，追求自己的幸福人生。

“父慈子孝”：《三字经》说：“养不教，父之过”，教育孩子是父母的职责，要“种下对孩子一生最重要的好的种子，才能成就他一生正确的做人处事态度。”父母教育最严重的问题在于“宠”。通过几个事例的阅读更使我明白了：教育孩子要慎于开始，从小一定要教对。不要所有的事你一手揽，久而久之，孩子心里会觉得父母替我做的事是应该的。所以宠孩子造成的是不孝，我们应该懂得磨练他，这是历练他一生的本事。爱是要理智，不是情感，情感之后就变宠，就变溺爱。我们应该做给孩子看：看到父母在孝敬自己的爷爷、奶奶，从小教育孩子孝顺长辈，对长辈有礼敬的态度，时时刻刻为长辈着想，它就不会自私，它也不会贪心。这就是要教孩子行孝，自己必先行孝。

父母要懂得如何用慈爱、用智慧来教导下一代;而孩子也要知道常常关怀体贴父母的需要来尽他的孝道，这样才能和谐发展。

“君臣”关系：“君仁”是指领导人应该仁慈，要处处替别人着想，还要替他的家庭，替他的家人着想。“臣忠”是指下属要忠于领导人，忠于他的本分、他的职责、忠于他的团体。一个家庭，一个团体最怕怕谗言，就是拨弄是非，我们不能去拨弄是非，也不能去听信谗言，要能养成大公无私去做事的度量。也让我发现了一个真理：为人父母、为人老师、为人领导最重要的是什么?要以身作则，这个教育的力量、教化的力量、感化别人的力量特别大。也使我想到为什么教育中经常提到教师随时随地要以身作则，做好学生的榜样和表率，这个力量是特别的。以身作则的同时我们也要每天反省自己的决策，作为最小的主任——班主任来说，管理工作决策的正误决定着整个班级的舆论导向，一定要让学生知道什么是对的，该大力表扬，要知道什么是错的，该知道廉耻。知荣明耻是班级树立正气的方向，只有知荣明耻了，才可能向着正确的方向发展，教育才能达到它真正的目的。

作为“臣”，我更应该学会每天的自我反省，做好自己分内的工作，不去搬弄是非，毕竟自己已经成人了，想法可以有，但不一定非要说出了，因为这些话有可能会伤害到别人，不利于别人的话尽量不说，不利于别人的事尽量不做，不能用自己的观点去强加于人，以和为贵。包括在处理家庭关系时也应该是同样的道理，记住了这些，才能经营好自己的幸福，难道不是吗?另外，一个千年的礼仪之邦，我们从小就应该学习礼仪、礼貌。孔子说：“不学礼，

无以立”。可能常常一句不经意的一句话，一个动作的失礼，就会得罪他人。无形之中给自己增加了很多的阻力。生活当中礼仪处处皆是，因此懂得礼貌待人的人可以减少生活中许多不必要的麻烦。我觉得“忠”“信”主要体现在夫妇关系和朋友关系生。曾经学过这样一句话：“君子之交淡如水”，与真正的朋友交往就如同一杯清水，虽然无色无味，但总能在最关键、你最需要帮助的时侯出现在你的身边，这就是真朋友之间的信义。孔子说过：“人无信不立”。可见“信义”对人交往的重要性。当朋友就要有当朋友的本分，一能够劝谏朋友，当朋友有过失的时候，我们要劝导他，要引导他。二当朋友的本分就要关怀朋友。

蔡老师还讲了许多慎思，明辨，笃行等方面，规划人行为方式，引导人积极向上的处事之方。他的处事态度和方法最具影响。

我们生活在拥有十三亿人口的大家庭中，处事应该有自己的原则。就要遵循道义，而不是遵循功利。遵循礼议的人必然能够得到他人的帮助。当然除了抓对道义的方向之外，处理事情还要讲求正确的态度，正确的方法，才能把事情办成功。所谓“行百里路半九十”，这半九十的原因在哪里?在自己的态度和方法不正确，才把事情没有办好。因次许多时候我们做事的态度和方法决定了我们成功与否。正确的态度和方法可以促进一件好事的进程，转变我们的态度，困难就会迎刃而解。

全书每一讲都是经典，每一讲都会启迪我们的心智，提升我们做人做事的品位。这本书以我们身边的平常事讲述这部平常的哲理。细节决定成功，我想幸福的人生应该从这些平常小事做起，在小事中体验、感受生活的大道理。在感受中进步，在学习中应用，应用简单而深刻的哲理提升我们的智慧，追求我们自己的幸福人生。

第二篇：当幸福来敲门读后感

"The Pursuit of Happyness" tells us a story about a

well-known United States stockbroker--- Chris. Chris and his wife went through a hard time of pioneering, started a

company, sell bone density detector to hospitals and doctors , but found they were unable to pay their rent bills, tax

returns, and various lives. Their contribution towards a rough life, his wife eventually left him. He continued to run his life with his son . without a house or room to live, sometimes ,he took his son to the streets, sometimes join to relief station’s long line waiting for the place to stay, no matter how hard, he never give up the dreams he wants to live a happy life. he sold his remaining instruments to sustain basic survival, to win a chance to be hired. He eventually passed the stockbroker's most brutal and intense selection, emerge as the United States a member of the most famous stock brokerage. And founded his own brokerage firm.

I still remember after a 6-month test period, He became the only winner from 20 people. When the interviewer said to him: "all seem to be not so easy, is it?" His eyes were wet, he said, "Oh, no, it is. ” but they didn’t exactly know what he has suffered. The pain of wife left , no place to live, had to spare his time in take care of his son ,no money to maintain their life,

sold his blood for money, work and study harder than anyone else even his time and environment is limited ,bear other

people’s laugh…… none of them made him give up his dream to run after happiness. In the calendar through suffering, sorrow, abandonment, abjection, helplessness, despair, after Chris with patience, hard work and attitude of never giving up in exchange for part of his life, the good old days.

And what is happiness? When Chris see graffiti in the

"happyness" spelling error, he said these words: There is no y (y or Why) in happiness, There is I. This line is extremely clever setting, it also aims to express through the entire film. Yes, there is no happiness in the why, the only others only their own happiness. Why blame others than their own happiness is meaningless, only rely on their own can be happy.

Even if Chris had an awful experience in police station just 1 hour early before his audition, so he looks very informal, he won the chance. i think his attitude made it. He said “ I'm the type of person, if you ask me a question, and I

don't know the answer, I'm gonna to tell you that I don't know. But I bet you what: I know how to find the answer, and I'll find the answer.” Chinese has an old saying” Be certain of what

you know and don't prentend to know things you don't” absolutely, Chris won.

In chris’ most terrible time ,he told his son,“ You got a dream, you gotta protect it. People can't do something

themselves, they wanna tell you, you can't do it. If you want something, go get it. ” maybe life is not so complex as people told , only yourself can tell what color life is , what kind of dream you fight for , and only yourself can tell you ,you deserve it or not.so ,just pay all your energy to protect your dream ,to win ,to get your happiness.