英语辩论赛

话题：当代社会男人压力大还是女人压力大

主持：主持词：Good morning everyone, today, we will bring you a small but brilliant debate. I hope all of you would enjoy the time.（介绍来宾）The judges of today's debate are our teacher and everybody here! Welcome! The topic for our debate today is "whether the pressure of men is more than women?" First please let me introduce the contestants of both sides. Those on the pros are Liu Junyi and me. Those on the cons are Gao Tianli and Lei Feiyan. As everybody is ready now, here starts the debate.

The first session: Statement of their arguments: ----the For-side, please

正方一辩：我方观点是当今社会男人的压力比女人的压力大。在当今社会事实是男人承受的压力远大于女人的压力，不仅从社会角度，从工作角度，从家庭角度都对男人有更多的要求，男人被要求能够很好的处理社会交际，能够出色的工作，能够赚取更多的钱，能够很好的照顾家庭和孩子。因此，在当代社会，男人承受了比女人更多的心理压力。

Our view is that the pressure of men is more than women in today's society. The fact is that the men’s pressure is far greater than women, not only from a social point of view, from the working point of view, from the families point of view , the society has more demands on men, men are required to have good social communication, excellent work, to earn more money, to take care of their families. Therefore, in contemporary society, men suffer more psychological pressure than women.

主持----the Against-side, please

反方一辩:我方的观点是当今社会女人的压力比男人压力大，随着社会的发展，女人在社会中的角色发生了重大变化，原来的女人只需要在家相夫教子就行，但是那个年代早已一去不复返了。女人在当今社会不仅要照顾家庭，而且自身也承担着社会中巨大的工作压力，因此，我方坚持认为在当今社会，女人承受了更大的压力。

Our view is that the pressure of women is more than men in today's society。With the development of society, the role of women in society greatly changes. In original ,women only need to assist their husbands and educate the children , Nowadays. A woman not only to take care of the family, and also bear the tremendous pressure from society. Therefore, we detected that in today's society, women suffer greater pressure.

主持：After the excellent arguments presentation from both side, now we move on to free debate session. Let me first!

自由辩论

正方二辩： 当今社会对男人的要求比女人的要求高很多，在如今如此大的竞争压力下，男人为了家庭不得不寻求一份稳定的工作，努力赚取养家的资本，哪怕在工作中不如意，也只能默默承受。因为一旦男人失去了工作，整个家庭将陷入严重的危机，这使得男人承受了巨大压力的同时也不敢轻易更换不如意的工作。因此，当代社会男人承受比女人更大的压力。

In today's society, requirements on men is much higher than women's, under so much competitive pressures, The man have to find a stable job for the family, to earn more money to support his families. Even if he is unhappy at work, he must endure. The reason is once the men lose their jobs, the whole family will be plunged into serious trouble, which makes the man under great pressure, while also not easy to replace unsatisfactory work. Therefore, men suffer greater pressure than women in contemporary society.

反方二辩：正如正方所言社会对我们给了我们更多的要求以及更大的压力。仅仅工作一项就使得我们难以喘息，更何况当代社会女人不仅自己要努力工作，承担社会给予的巨大压力，而且更多地要承担几乎整个家庭生活所给的压力。每天要做饭，洗衣服，照顾丈夫孩子，这些事已经使得女人忙得黑白颠倒，再加上工作上的巨大压力，使得当代女人超额承受着巨大的压力。

As you said the society has given us more demands and greater pressure. Just work making us difficult to breathe , moreover modern women not only to work hard, bear enormous social pressure , but also have to undertake almost the entire pressure from family and life. Cooking, washing, taking care of her husband and child every day have made women day and night reversed , combined with the enormous pressure at work, so the modern women under great pressure.

正方一辩：当然，你说得非常有道理，但是所有的前提是女人自己来选择。如果女人感到压力大，她可以从二中选一，可以回归家庭来减轻自身压力，而男人别无选择，他们即使遇到这种超额的压力，唯一的选择就是忍受、承担，从而使之承受了不仅是工作的压力，而且还有很大的心理负担。

Of course, what you said is very reasonable, but premise is must choose by women themselves. If the women were feeling excessive pressure, they can pick one from two. They were able to return home to relieve their stress, while men have no choice, even if they bear excessive pressure, the only choice who can make is to endure, to bear, thus making it not only to withstand the pressure of work, but also a great psychological burden.

反方一辩：像你方所说的，的确没错，可是在当代社会中，事实是女人几乎都做出了不仅顾家而且在外工作的选择。在家庭方面，日常烦琐的小事，抚养孩子健康成长，照顾好自己的老公。在工作方面，工作的压力，同事竞争的压力，人际关系的处理，每个也使得女人疲惫不堪。因此我方认为当代的女人压力大于男人的压力。

Just like you have said, that’s right, but in contemporary society, the fact is that almost all women have made the choice ,while not only care about their families and work outside. In the family, the daily trivial things, raising the children, taking good care of husband. At work, the pressure from itself , the pressure of competition among colleagues, the interpersonal relationship, each one makes woman exhausted. Therefore we think that women‘s pressure is greater than man in the modern society.

主持：Now with such a brilliant debate contribution from both sides, we all have some understanding of the arguments. I think everyone has their own views about it. Thank you again！

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1.正方一辩：Are interpersonal relationship more important than one’s practical ability to a successful career?

Dear Mr President, Friends of the other debate, my friends: Hello everybody!

As is known to all , The 21st century is the century of talents’ outbreak. It is a highly competitive age. but if you want to obtain a successful career, it relys on not only the practical ability of outstanding individuals, but also good relationships. Therefore, our view is that relationship is more important than the practical ability for a successful career. Here we described the following four aspects.

First, as the development of the times, everyone should be raised to their real ability, but the single person's capacity is limited. A person's success, 85% attributed to his personal connections. Seemingly fortune to come, in fact, mostly the result of hard work,contacts.

Second, we live in a certain social group among the people. A person's survival and development are inseparable from interaction with others. Chinese saying goes: at home by their parents, go out to rely on friends. If a person can properly handle the relationship, he can overcome many difficulties.

Third, Fowler said that the closet friend is better than deposits in business. With good relationships, we can be better in many areas and create more wealth.

Fourth, as a college student, every day we live in the campus, to deeply realize that here is a small community. Even if a person with a greater capacity, he can not organize an event all by himself.

A recent survey showed that fifteen percent of success is contributed by a person’s professional knowledge.85 percents rely on personal relationships. In summary, we must insist that relationship is more important than the practical ability for a successful career.

2.反方一辩：Respect other friends, chairman of the divides, each friend: hello!

Today's opportunity to come to grips with so many friends and this undoubtedly superior personal quality and ability is a promotion of opportunity. We think that an individual career success, personal ability is more important than relationships.

We think: an individual career success, by strength, no strength, interpersonal and how? Strength by himself, interpersonal relations also rely on yourself. Interpersonal relationship just for one person to provide a ready a shortcut to success.

Admittedly, personal ability and interpersonal is successful two prerequisite, and today we is exploring the among them successful process in which the crucial: first, from philosophical Angle, the development of internal is things root causes, determines the nature of things and the direction of development, external cause is things develop external conditions. Individual struggle is the internal cause and external cause interpersonal relationship is, therefore, own struggle is the key to success; In the second place, from success successful process to see, we first need to determine target, so as to choose direction and type, again through his own personal struggle, with their own quality and ability the enhancement, to expand interpersonal relationship, using interpersonal relationships, achieve their work and the perfect combination of external

We all know, interpersonal relationship is again good, have no ability to also won't succeed. Only watched his repeated failure. On the premise of a fine winged capacity. Gold shine is the gold itself became! We think: interpersonal influence to be successful, it is like a good journey, the journey to walk, inevitable energy, wind, but if there is no firm to reach objective decision and overcome difficulties of perseverance and hard sweat, is impossible to reach the shore. Downwind or downwind or as long as we firmly stepping to the goal, we will definitely be able to arrive.

Look at the great is how successful it, that is the gold and the individual effort, interpersonal relationship is a result of people, if their don't strive for, no ability to fight for, interpersonal relations will not come himself, and waiting for is only pulp. Only oneself to have true ability really ability to overcome everything.

To sum up, we think that an individual career success personal ability is more important than relationships.

3.反方二辩提问（一辩）：Would I ask the first debater a question : Just in your account, you said that 85% person make success with interpersonal relationship, where did the data come from? And even if I don’t challenged this data, Edison had said: "genius is one percent inspiration and ninety-nine percent perspiration.” Isn't the personal ability so important?

4.正方一辩回答：As the debate ，ninties perspiration plus one inspiration was a success, a person is required to pay 99 sweat, but the team of ten people only should spend 50 sweats and 50 inspirations to gain the success,Everybady can find which relationship is better meet the efficiency of modern society demands?

It is clear that good relationships will be more than infinitely expand your horizons, so you do not have to take so many detours.

5.反方二辩提问（三辩）：Would I ask the third debater a question : Your statement said: students should pay more attention to build relationships in the school. So I want to ask you whether the study is not important? Obviously, the study is very important, and It is just one’s practical ability.

6.正方三辩回答：

7.正方四辩补充发言：Also known as interpersonal relationships, is a basic concept of sociology, its meaning is between people, the process of interaction, through the thoughts, feelings, behavior of the mutual exchange and interaction generated. People as social animals, even with a more tenacious survival skills, from social interaction, and can not have more development, because he is a man in combat. We are a group of people in the struggle.

8.正方二辩提问（一辩）：Would I ask the first debater a question : if you think what a CEO needs most is a practical ability, so why will he hear so much about interpersonal relationship lecture?

9.反方一辩回答：They attend the lecture interpersonal relationship is in order to increase the ability of individuals with their own personal ability of interpersonal relations to succeed in his career, rather than using interpersonal relationship.

10. 正方二辩提问（三辩）：Would I ask the third debater a question: practical ability is IQ and interpersonal relationship is EQ, success come from 20% of IQ and 80% of EQ, what do you think of it?

11. 反方三辩回答：myfellowdebater,youmustbemisunderstandwhatisinterpersonalrelationship.youshouldhaveputinterpersonalrealatersonalrealationshipequatestoEQ.it’sobviouslywrong.Bsides,myfellowdebater,haven’tyouheardofEdison’ssayings:99%perspirationplus1%inspirationequalssuccess?Ithinkmyfellowdebaterdidn’tunderstandwhatisinterpersonalreationship?

12. 反方四辩补充发言：

13.反方二辩小结： Each person is in his own success way, or shallow point in the way of job and work, we will face more challenges, we may have a good interpersonal relationship, we may be introduced to find a good job by friend, but when we truly work, we have no our workmate admitted, we also have no ability to truly achieve the company's demand, so in the end ,we will face ousted, we also have no the so-called success. If interpersonal relationship is important, I think interpersonal relationship also belongs to a part of one’s practical ability, So one’s practical ability is very important.

14.正方二辩小结：Interpersonal relationship is a very good platform to improve one’s practical ability, people can learn more from this platform, in order to improve their ability. In modern society, people live in groups all over the world. If you do not have interpersonal relationship, others will not know your ability . Such as advertising, no matter how good the commodity is, if others do not know that, and don't use it, the commodity will be a waste product. For another example, if a CEO only have ability but can not deal with various kinds of business relationship, this company will close down. No matter how strong one’s practical ability is, he could not separate himself from the whole society and exists, and he must learn to work with others to be successful, as 80% of EQ lead to success. Practical ability would not make you starve to death in the society, but the relationship can make a better life for you.

15.正方一辩：Interpersonal communication is the important to college students’ interpersonal growth and success .Also,it is an important way of exchanging the information and acquiring knowledge in modern society. Many students high IQ, EQ is very low.They often donot handle well that how to get along with others, Nowadays a good communication is the necessary ability and qualityto the most companies recruitment。 My fellow debaters, please tell me ,how many guys who has high IQ but low EQ have gained the success？

16.反方三辩：myfellowdebater,ithinkyoustillmisunderstandwhat’stheinterpersonalreationship.youshouldbetterlookourdebatetopic.Don’tmyfellowdebaterdon’tknowinternaldebateisfundamental,extenalcondiitions?personalabilityistheintenalcause.obviously,itismoreusefultooursuccess,isn’tit?

17.正方三辩：my fellow debaters are obviously evading our question. You have said that swift horses cover a thousand li in a single day. Yet if there are no talent scouts, can the swift horses develop their abilities? Aren’t they still in the old stables?

18.反方一辩：This is a cannot be judged facts. I think personal ability including interpersonal relationship, you how explanation?

19.正方二辩：if the relationship between the practical ability and interpersonal relationship is that of including and included, our debate will have no meaning now, because the argument itself has become unequal. My fellow debaters, please explain the meaning of practical ability clearly.

20.反方三辩：myfellowdebater, We emphasize individual ability is broad not narrow. In our view, interpersonal relations can become part of personal ability. Excuse memyfellowdebater, You think only relationships can leads to success?

21.正方三辩：Debater， we never deny the importance of personal ability, and we also admit the influence of personal ability to success, but we insist that interpersonal relationship is more important. Without ability we can live well, while we will be abandoned by the world, if we do not have interpersonal relationship.

22.反方二辩：myfelloedebater, Obviously misinterpret our view. We have not denied interpersonal relationships, but think one aspect of a man ability. But you overstating the ability of interpersonal relationship

23.反方四辩总结：

24.正方四辩总结：To sum up, we insist that interpersonal relationship is more important .

In the adolescent, students always have active thinking and rich feeling, who need very strong interpersonal communication. Good interpersonal relationship can make people have high spirits, become confident, and be optimistic attitude to life. In general, most of students with good interpersonal can maintain a cheerful disposition and an enthusiasm optimistic quality to understand and treat a variety of practical problems correctly and settle the arguments in life or study, forming good qualities, and quickly adapt to college life. Conversely, without positive interpersonal relationships, we can not correctly treat ourselves and others, and become narrow-minded and short-sighted. So we can easily form a mental, psychological pressure, which is difficult to resolve psychological conflicts. What’s more, it may also lead to serious morbid mentality.

Interpersonal relationship is the protection of college students’ success. Interpersonal communication is the guarantor of the exchange of information, and an important way to acquire knowledge .Modern society is an information society, the large amount of information and the high of the information value are unprecedented. Along with the expansion of information, people’s requirements of owning and using all kinds of information are continually growing. Through interpersonal communication, we can exchange information and results with each other, by which way we will enrich our knowledge, broaden our horizons, and have active thinking and inspired ideas.

Many students have high IQ, while their EQ is very low, who often can not handle well how to get along or communicate with others, which is nowadays the most valued business recruitment ability and quality. Therefore, to university students make up this class for university students is of great urgency.

At last, let me repeat our opinion: interpersonal relationship is more important than one’s practical ability to a successful career.

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