英语演讲与写作作业6 邵小潍

Homework: Many people in modern society find it hard to make decision,

what should be given priority, marriage or career?

When it comes to what should be given priority, marriage or career,

deferent people may have deferent opinions. Some may think that marriage is more important than career , they think family is the necessities. If they lose their job, they can find another though which may not as well-condition as before. But if they become a bachelor or a single, they may feel lonely and have a passive attitude toward their life. Even some young people may commit suicide when they break up with their girlfriend or boyfriend. However , some people are more rational than emotional. Though the marriage is very important thing in one’s life, but they think the career would be given priority. To some extent, career is the basic of marriage.

Actually, few people in our modern society want to have a naked marriage, and as what the TV series shows, the naked marriage may have many problems in their future life. As we can see, without career and material wealth , marriage just like the castles in the air.

From my point of view, if we want to have a happiness life after

marrying with someone, we must become more dependent and strong fist. Because when you marriage and even have a baby in the future, you and your husband or wife may face more problems than premarital. And I don’t think that becoming a full-time wife or full-time husband is a good chosen. Many may say that the child need to be took care of and the couple should be divided their labor. Actually ,this is a mislead thought, many child in our society are just come from single family and become successful in the future, they even just have one parent , they may bring up in dependent which is good to their future life. And if one become a full-time wife or

husband, they may pay much attention to their husband or wife, which may give much pressure to them, which can cause many problems in their marriage.

What’s more, the family is just like an organic machine, they need

sources and material basic to make it operate well. So we need to give the priority to our career. You may say that happiness is not relate to the money or career ,if they love each other, they do not care about anything , the old proverb said that “For love ,I will sacrifice my life” , but you may forget the The following sentence “For freedom ,I will sacrifice my love”. Just imagine that if your full-time wife live without any career and she pay all her attention to you, she may become more sensitive and want to know what are you doing in every 5 minutes, what is your feeling of your

marriage? Still feel it happiness? Actually not! Because you may think that you lose your freedom and this may bring much more quarrels.

I think the marriage should be build on the basic of career. If one have his or her own career, this may help they have more ability to be

responsible for their family, they can have a positive attitude towards their life and do not become idle everyday. Just when they have a stable career, they may have a ability to think their marriage, they can think what they can bring to their children and their lover.

To sum up, the answer to this question is obvious, there is no doubt

that the career should be given priority.

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第二篇：英语辩论：婚姻中爱情重要还是钱重要(英文)

英语辩论:婚姻中,爱情重要还是钱重要(英文)

钱重要：

1. Our topic emphasizes that which is more important in a marriage rather than to start a marriage. So when the marriage is established, it’s money plays a bigger part in the daily life.

2. According to 110 Consulting Forum, the top reasons for divorce are suspicions, conflicts, little sense of consideration and being too busy to take care each other but money. So it is the harmonious relationship between the couple that counts in a marriage rather than the spiritual love. And being sufficient in money will give you a lot of time to show respect for each other, which with no doubt will strengthen you marriage.

3. Money is crucial to maintain a marriage, while love is honey only within its shelf life. Details beat love while money can remove these obstacles which prevent the couple from having a happy life.

4. Harmonious couple relationship is inseparable from money. Actually, couple relation isn’t mere spiritual love but rather a kind of harmony between the couple and the lack of money will spoil it.

5. Money is what helps us shoulder the responsibilities in a marriage. Without enough money, what can you offer to support your parents? How can you ensure your children a better education? Money is much more than the business between the couple. We can’t live on the

pledge of eternal love. Only when we are sufficient in money can we bear our responsibilities to improve the living standards of our beloved ones.

6. Questions: Do you want your fere to be successful and excellent in his/her career if you are in a marriage? It may means that you do lay stress on the economic power of your fere. Have you ever heard of the idiom that poverty gives rise to the desire to change? Don’t you think poverty will lead to person’s betrayal of marriage?