READING REPORT
After reading the book named 《The Unbearable Lightness of Being》,I feel very depressive. Milan Kundera’s writing style is quiet direct and incisive. Unfortunately, people can’t admit that the veritable desire because of these we have progress. I think what Milan wants to tell us that no desire no improvement.
One of a scene in the book is that Teresa’s mother was beautiful when she was young. She had nine pursuers the first one was the most handsome, the second one is the brightest, the third one is the richest, the fourth one is the healthy, the fifth one is the most noble, the sixth one is the most poetic, the seventh traveled around the world few years ago, the eighth one can played the violin, the last one was full of manliness. Finally, Teresa’s mother got married with the ninth man not because she loves him but they have a baby named Teresa. Her mother didn’t love Teresa at all, she always think the rest eight men are better than her husband, she didn’t pursue others, so that she left her husband and pursue a no manful man who had few times crimes and he divorce twice. She married him, but after that she starts sinking and lost her beauty become a shrew.
This period gives me the deepest impression. Milan put nine different peculiarities to nine individual persons, Teresa’s mother can only choose one. She wants everyone because she doesn't know which one she loves most. Her greed let her come to a man of nothing. She began to lose, lose beauty, lose the quality of life and the soul. When Teresa locked the door and asked for their most basic right, as a mother of her on the rampage, she realized that everything left her, and she in the last mother's identity, is almost coerce her daughter left. But these are all in vain, because she never taken any responsibility in life, whether to society and family, or relatives. She died just gently closed my eyes, there won't be any heavy soul.
On the other hand, I'm thinking of Milan to convey love. "Love" is always a secret. I once thought that love is pure perceptual things, if you use too much rational thinking to think it, then love will not be pure. Now this view was almost subverted. The love needs conditions and rational thinking. You need to know what you need most, find a person can satisfy our needs, and then forgive his faults, perform your responsibilities to the others, this is love. Milan says "burden is heavy, our life more close to the earth, more real it is." Probably with responsibility through love is real love. Wrote here, I found that the rigid pursue a person that you think how is a foolish thing, love is in the special time meet someone special.
Unconsciously ,I wrote so many, but there are boundless feeling, it is difficult to read《The Unbearable Lightness of Being》, if I want to know every word meaning, I might spend a few years time to read it, but it has really made me grow up and I do benefit from it..
第二篇：不能承受的生命之轻读后感
为何不能承受生命之轻--------读米兰昆德拉《不能承受的生命之轻》有感生命中有太多事，看似轻如鸿毛，却让人难以承受。开始读这本时候，想到的就是对书名的不解，为何承受不起这生命之轻呢？“轻”为何？是否人又能承受得了生命之重呢？生命为何有重量之分呢？抱着这些想法，我开始了米兰昆德拉的《不能承受的生命之轻》旅程。当看到“她蜷缩在车厢的一角，那只沉重的行李箱放在头顶上方，卡列宁蹲在她的脚旁。她想起跟母亲住在一起时曾工作过的那家小酒店的厨师。那家伙从不放过任何一次可能的机会，动不动就在她屁股上打一下，还不止一次地当着众人的面提出要和她睡觉。真奇怪，她想到的竟是他。对她来说，他代表着她所厌恶的一切。但是现在，她只有一个念头，找到他，然后对他说：“你说想和我睡觉，好！我来了。””这里的时候，出现的不解更加明显。是否是东西方的文化差异？是否是我的知识理解水平不够呢？让我实在对“她”的想法不解。但是我没有停下了，我继续读下去。当读完全书的时候，是一种心理的解压，终于从男女主人公的纠结变形的爱情中走出，也开始思考他们之间的情感。他们之间的情感，如果如作者在序言中所说的“但在历代的爱情诗中，女人总渴望承受一个男性身体的重量。于是，最沉重的负担同时也成了最强盛的生命力的影像。”那么就可以理解为，他们之间的爱情是一种奴性的、一种生理上的、一种变形的又符合事实的情感吧！我会怀疑他们的情感，并非爱情，但是谁又能说清楚何为爱情呢？每对情人之间的爱情，都有其独特的地方。其他人是不能评判这感情的。但是从一个客观的角度，或者是从一个哲学的角度来说，从他们的感情中得到和体味到的东西，才是这本书的意义所在。人们总是常说生命如此的美好，但是我总是觉得这其实只是人们的一种对于生命的一种渴望，生命是我们生活中不可缺少的部分，对于生命的思考是我们人类永远不会改变的主体，生命实在是有太多的东西需要我们去努力，只有在激流中拼命挣扎才能够活命，所以说人的一生最重要的就是责任，每个人有每个人的责任，每个人都必须面对自己的责任，逃避只会使自己变得更加的却懦，胆怯的自己是没有办法在今天这样的世界中生存下去的，这一切的一切都需要我们来承担，需要我们用毕生的精力来完成，最后只有在阳光中才能得到温暖。所以说，生命的意义和轻重之分在于主体——个人。从托马斯的一生中，可以看出他不想直面自己的生命，不敢正确的对待自己
的感情，又奴性于这种感情。他的眼里，这些感情实在是太沉重了，让他承受不起。 生命是用来感受的和体验的，我们每个人都在这个纷繁的世界中挣扎，在无数的困难中学会了坚强，同时我们学会了包容在这样的心态中我们得到了最大的快乐，或许逆境中也是一种美丽，在这当中我们得到了洗礼。不管是怎样的问题还是怎样的困境我们将勇敢的面对，直视这些问题，在每个人的心中总有那么一块净土，它是那么的纯真与善良，它是人性中最宝贵的东西在这里没有欺骗没有痛苦没有一切一切的伤害，只有那美丽的海滩蔚蓝的天空，我们翱翔于自由的天空中让风轻揉得掠过脸庞，在这里无论是什么都是这样的美好他是人们的一个梦，为什么说是梦呢我想往往梦总能让人看到自己内心的真实情感，或者可以这么说梦就是我们内心的感应。昆德拉审慎的思考着一个问题：“最沉重的负担压迫着我们，让我们屈服于它，把我们压到地上。但在历代的爱情诗中，女人总渴望承受一个男性身体的重量。于是，最沉重的负担同时也成了最强盛的生命力的影像。负担越重，我们的生命越贴近大地，它就越真切存在。相反，当负担完全消失，人就会变的比空气还轻，就会飘起来，就会远离大地和地上的生命，人也就是一个半真的存在，其运动也会变的自由而没有意义。那么，到底选择什么？重还是轻？”在生命的进程中，有存在的社会的因素，人性的因素，责任、欲望、理想这些情感的束缚或者情感的约束，对于生命的重量来说，就像加入了作料，加入了好的坏的东西，让生命有了自己的成分。但是生命本不应该有何掺杂外物的东西呀！因为生命本来就是一个人自己的改变与接收在交织进行的，不断改变，直至死亡时候，又回到原本的自己了。读本书，不仅仅在男女主人公之间的情感中纠结，还在男主人公对于自己国家的热情上考虑了一些问题。不管米兰昆德拉想说明什么，我从中都感到自己的收获。所以感谢米兰昆德拉，感谢这样一个机会来使自己的情感丰富，使自己思考得以充实！09级 软件学院 通信软件09388384 张红艳