读《飘》有感

不要不辞而别，我的爱人。

我看望了一夜，现在我脸上睡意重重。

只恐我在睡中把你丢失了。

不要不辞而别，我的爱人。

我惊起伸出双手去摸触你，我问自己说：

“这是一个梦么？"

但愿我能用我的心系住你的双足，紧抱在胸前！

不要不辞而别，我的爱人。”

——泰戈尔《Tomorrow is another day》

天生丽质却任性虚伪，精明能干却冷酷无情，不安现状却不折手段，坚强自信却贪婪自私，不屈不挠却卑鄙阴险，渴望爱情却追求实际。这是公认对思嘉‘中肯’的评价。整部书以思嘉的爱情为主，思嘉共有三次婚姻，第一次因为艾希礼拒绝他而选择媚兰恼羞成怒进而选择施展魅力迷惑媚兰家弟查尔斯 ，第二次则是选择勾引并欺骗妹妹苏伦的老男友弗兰克，第三次才是选择了真爱瑞德——因此思嘉因前两次婚姻的不正当性饱受诟病，虚荣，贪婪 ，残忍与自私的品性深深烙印在她的骨子里。

但我仍然爱她，因为她真实。之所以为她开脱因为爱她——爱她的美丽，爱她的坚韧，爱她的古灵精怪，爱她的敢于反叛——既然我们都崇尚自由个性解放，又何必为难一个具有提前意识的姑娘呢?当她亚特兰大义卖会上接受瑞德的蛊惑翩翩起舞时，我不由自主的为她着迷——潇洒透了，思嘉一边满足自身虚荣跳着舞一边说服自己得来的竞价舞为联盟做了贡献——离经叛道的同时还愧疚着爱伦的教诲，真是欲盖弥彰的可爱无比。况且在场的女眷们唯有她意识到所谓主义毫无神圣之处，战争也并非什么崇高的事，只不过是盲目的戕杀人类、好费金钱、妨害人们享受的一种讨厌行为而已——

虽然连她本身对自己这种想法都感到惊慌——但与那些狂热而盲目的热衷于所谓保护家乡的人相比起来，思嘉保留自己的意见并能独立思考这场战争的意义，本身就显得尤其伟大。媚兰等伟大女性之流虽意志坚定，但在聪慧这一点上却万万不能与思嘉相较。而且，思嘉的残忍与自私在适度上也是值得褒扬的。首先，在社会转型的时期，人的观念需要从传统的观念转变成为新型的、与社会发展相适应的观念。不能在第一时间内转变观念的人就失去了领导时代的主动权。思嘉就是一个在第一时间内转变观念，接受了新的社会和社会制度、新的价值观念、新的生活方式，并且成为了一个小资本家的女人，在这一点，她也非常了不起。而且，在刚刚建立了资本主义制度时，自私和残忍对于一个资本家来说是生存和发展的关键。在资本主义社会，对世界的博爱已经是阻碍资本的自身生存和发展的一个因素，此时，自私与残忍就成了强者的优点。

而坚韧让我与思嘉产生深层次的共鸣。在塔拉生死存亡之地，她亲自犁地抓畜生采摘棉花支撑全家人的生计，孤立无援之下打死入侵的‘北方佬‘，顶着爱伦染病而亡杰拉尔德痴呆的毁灭性打击在精神崩溃的边缘仍然忍饥挨饿支撑着整个塔拉——每每看到思嘉眼含热泪紧攥着塔拉的红色泥土向天盟誓，决不愿让家人再受苦挨饿时，我深深的体会到了思嘉渴望安定、渴望生存、渴望富裕的强烈而真实的内心情感。我觉得那时的她，已完成了最艰难的嬗变，由一只丑陋的毛毛虫破茧而出变成了美丽的蝶，自由而高贵，那时的思嘉就像一个女神——渴望富有、无比坚强并为此能不择手段的欲望女神。一切好转时，埃米·莱斯特里，间接夺走爱伦生命的人出现，这次又要夺走她倾注全部心血的塔拉——为筹税款思嘉无耻计划了第二次婚姻,与妹妹的未婚夫弗兰克。而我并没有想象中那么反感——况苏伦为钱逼着神志不清的父亲去签关乎信仰的声明进而导致了可爱老人家的死亡，塔拉破败后仍然自私自利的享受生活——摘棉花时还无耻的装晕——简直令人厌恶到极致。更重要的是就算苏伦结

婚也不会援助塔拉，爱伦的心血避免不了被恶人侵占，黑妈妈因此一反常态没有阻挠思嘉。偏爱思嘉的我觉得思嘉甚至都有些伟大，毕竟嫁给条件不佳的人需要很大勇气，一般观点认为思嘉将爱情与婚姻分割开让人难以忍受，却没有想到她何尝不想幸福，一味的职责太过以偏概全太过不公平。

在艾希礼和瑞德的问题上，个人认为各位看官们过于苛责这个仅有16岁的姑娘了——责备她的理由无非纠缠于艾希礼没有认清真正心爱的人是瑞德，利用他人对她的爱欺骗了男人们。如果可以谁不想人生伊始就到找到真爱呢——思嘉个人也算是人生的受害者。脱离的理解的爱就是美好的海市蜃楼，接近到一定程度就无法再靠近。这就是艾希礼。至于瑞德，一个细节印象颇为深刻。思嘉带回由瑞德手帕包裹的鲜花后，将手帕细细珍藏，爱意已明显的表露出来，颇为讽刺的是再次看到同样有瑞德缩写手帕却包裹着百丽·沃灵——一名红头发妓女——的善款，与妓女同享心爱的男人简直是跌破女孩子的底线。没有早早投入瑞德怀抱，想来瑞德也难逃其咎——思嘉与艾希礼礼貌拥抱被人误解，最需要的就是瑞德，而他却冷嘲热讽乃至于怀疑思嘉渴望生下孩子的来历。这对一个女人无疑是莫大的伤害。所以没有认清真爱无法判断谁对谁错，只能说阴差阳错让他们不能如愿。她美丽，但她只是适当地运用她的美丽来得到她所喜爱的东西，从来不用自己的美貌来玩弄爱情，无论是自己的还是他人的爱情。在这一方面来讲她又何其坦荡。

而在全书中，我认为思嘉最重要、最珍视的感情不是亲情，不是她视为生活一部分的爱情，而是颇受争议与指责的与媚兰之间友谊。思嘉是个矛盾综合体，在她与瑞德爱情就可见一斑。思嘉认为自己讨厌媚兰，可是亚特兰大战争里她却冒着生命危险留了下来，为媚兰接生——皮蒂姑妈都为自己的安慰着想逃离了——离开的危急时刻没拿珍贵物品却为媚兰拿了床垫与被子，回到塔拉为给她喝牛奶

克服恐惧驯服母牛。思嘉一直在为自己找借口，说是为艾希礼的承诺，却没发现对媚兰早已超过了对他的情感。所以，在媚兰死后，而不是父母离去之后思嘉意识到了自己与媚兰之间的相互依赖，意识到了自己所需要什么，第一次体会到了如此深切的无助。所以说思嘉本性依旧善良，媚兰的苦心没有被浪费。

在一系列的的挫折中，改造了自我，改变了个人甚至整个家族的命运。随思嘉行走的过程中，我已爱上塔拉，爱上她的残忍爱上她的愚钝爱上她的自私。有信仰有想要守护的人 值得尊敬。我深信思嘉与瑞德终会在一起，有塔拉的思嘉，终会有明天，毕竟，tomorrow is another day。

学院：政法学院 年级：2012级 姓名：刘可欣

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第二篇：Gone with the Wind “飘”的全英读后感

Gone with the Wind

By Margaret Mitchell

Margaret Mitchell was born in Atlanta on 8 November 1900 and raised in a lawyer family. As she was a child, she could often hear of talks of War Between the States, and it made her have the desire to write a novel about war. That was why Gone with the Wind published after she grew up. Margaret Mitchell didn?t have many words in her life, but Gone with the Wind is everlasting in the world.

Every one in the Gone with the wind has his or her particular character. However, the first time after I had finished reading the novel, I can not totally understand the meaning to describe such a woman as the heroine. In my eyes, the other characters are better. Melanie Hamilton is a kind and great woman, Ashley is a righteous gentleman, and Rhett is an honest and unconstrained man. But Scarlet, who seemed to always care about herself, was so mean and hateful. She could marry men whom she didn?t love to, she could take her sister?s lover away and she even didn?t show too much sorrow when her two husbands died.

But the second reading gave me another feeling; I finally understand a great word is not a fairy tale, which has its certain good or bad characters. A coin has two sides; Scarlet in the Gone with the wind is just a character to show us readers something. So, what is something? First, there is a clue------Tara. From the beginning to the end, many plots were happen though it.

At the beginning of this novel, Scarlet knew the news Ashley was going to marry Melly, she asked her father to prove it and know the news was truth, there was dialogue between she and her dad: Pa,” I want my girl to be happy and you wouldn?t be happy with him(Ashley).” Scarlet:” Oh, I would! I would!” Pa:” That you would not, daughter……Land is the only thing in the world that amounts to anything……for ?tis the only things in this world that lasts, and don?t you be forgetting it! ?Tis the only thing worth working for, worth fighting for, worth dying for……” This is the first time to mention the signification of the existence of Tara. And at that time, Scarlet just laughed her father like a Irishman and what she cared was just Ashley, he was her dream!

Then was the marriage to Charles, the war, and her first husband?s dead. During the war, she lost almost everything, she went through the starvation, the panic, the dead around her and what she wanted was staying at home------Tara. Though everything was lost, she could live and take care of other folks like a parent. Then, she met Ashley again in Tara, Scarlet begged him to take her away, she said there?s nothing left for her, nothing to fight for and live for. Thus, Ashley told her there?s something, something she love better than him though she may not know it. Then he took up a handful of sand to Scarlet, she began to be calm and agreed she still had Tara. This is the second

time to describe Tara, and at that time, because of having suffered a lot, she became much matured and loved money.

The third time mention Tara was after Rhett?s left. Scarlet finally understood she just loved something not existed-----Ashley?s perfect image from her imagination. Actually, she didn?t know it before. Just like her nightmare in the honeymoon with Rhett, she said she was too tired and she couldn?t find “it”, she ran through the mist and she couldn?t find “it”. When Rhett asked what is “it”? She didn?t know, she just knew “it” was hidden in the mist. There was a connection in her way home after Scarlet found out her heart eventually, all the way was full of the mist, though she final knew “it” is her love to Rhett, she couldn?t catch it like her dream.

So, in the end of the novel, she was alone, the only thing lasted was Tara, which she loved to go when she was suffering anything. Something maybe is the capitalist fate or the maid?s heart in love, it gave her the courage to live and became brave.

There are a thousand Hamlets in a thousand people's eyes, by reading this novel; the readers could certainly feel its great fascination.