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我方的辩题是——男女之间不存在真正的友谊。
在百度百科我们查到，友谊指的是人们在交往活动中产生的一种特殊情感，是一种来自双向关系的情感，即双方共同凝结的情感，任何单方面的示好，不能称为友谊。
那么，我们可以把“真正的友谊”理解为：是人们在交往中相互信任的基础上建立起来的亲密情谊。它涵盖两个重要特征，一是超物质性，就是不得有一星半点的物质玷污；二是超功利性，也就是不能夹杂任何的利用的卑鄙目的。 春秋时期的管仲与鲍叔牙有着深厚的友谊，以至一句“生我者父母，知我者鲍字也！”成为友谊的典范千古流芳。还有鲁迅与瞿秋白、马克思和恩格斯的友谊也是有目共睹终成佳话，但这只是同性的友谊。
在现实生活中，同性的友谊可以无限制发展，而异性之间即使存在友谊，也会受到性别的限制，不能无限度地深入和发展。因为人类的从人猿进化过来的，还遗留着这些动物的本性，也就是性欲。无论是男人或女人，在友谊发展的初期也许不会凸显，但当友谊进一步地深入的时候，就保证不了不对性的需求，对欲望的体验。就象前自治区政府主席成克杰和李平，从不认识到认，从普通朋友到情妇，到违法乱纪，终究断送了自己的一生。这是违背道德和法律的底线结果，也是异性男女之间不存在真正的友谊的真实写照。
还要强调有一点，同性之间只要不是同性恋，有了友谊可以彻夜触膝相谈，同床共寝，这种友谊不会受到任何指点和指责。但如果是异性男女之间的友谊是彻夜共寝、形影不离，如果不是建立在婚姻之上，肯定会受到家庭、同事朋友、道德伦理、社会的谴责，甚至还可能会受到法律的制裁。
因此可以断言，异性男女之间不存在真正的友谊，如果谁执著的强调有，那就是说此友谊只是初级的低等阶段的，还没有达到真正意义上的友谊，还不是真正的友谊。
第二篇：男女之间没有真正的友谊
男女之间的友谊是一个借口
男女之间的友谊到底存在不存在？有没有圣洁的友谊？很多人怀疑男女之间的友谊，所谓的男女之间的友谊不过是旧情不忘，还有藕断丝连的情感存在。
男女之间只有同事之情，同学之情，根本没有所谓的友谊。所谓的友谊不过是一个借口。一个女人整日里把男女之间的友谊当话题，特别是当应酬的托词，一定是有毛病的。肯定是有过出轨的行为或正在暗恋或保持着暗恋的心态。
一个已婚的男人把男女之间的友谊无论说的多么纯洁，是没有人相信的，事实上也是。友谊是一种情分，没有情分哪来的友谊？
有些人就是为自己的见面，把有友情强调的很很重，实际是什么自己心里最清楚，最了解。
情分是一种关系。友谊也是一种关系。女人和女人之间，男人和男人之间的关系一般都很复杂，不是念及一种情面，就是一种利用。无论怎样的关系都是一种依赖的关系，都是心理的需要，都是一种潜在的利用关系。
男女之间的友谊说白了就是一种互利关系的符号。没有价值的友谊是不存在的。
男女之间的友谊完全出于一种人的情感的需要，绝对不会是一种普通的关系。
一个男人总是把一个女人的所谓的友情和友谊挂在嘴上，想在心里，此人不是和她有旧情，就是一种帮助关系。有的女人和男人总是义无反顾帮助异性，实际自己心理是有一种喜爱的倾向的，甚至就是一种恋爱关系。平日里的往来客套和帮助，不是友谊，那只是一种互利的爱护和帮助，不会有什么感情而言。
男人和女人就是异性之间的吸引，就是一种仰慕或追求。无论是可怜、怜悯、坦荡的帮助都是由头和借口。男女之间的异性关系是不可否认的，你说你有悲悯之心，你说你心地善良，为什么不帮助别的异性，而偏偏帮助你自己喜欢的异性？这个异性无论有多么的可怜，需要帮助都是可以一时的帮助，而那种处处帮助，事事关心的叫友谊？鬼才信。
异性之间的吸引才是友谊的前提。有的男女之间的确没有过格的行为，把友谊看得比生命还重要。但是，为什么不把感情发展的更加理想？那是因为条件所限，不能离婚，不能在一起。把友谊进行到底，实际就是让自己心灵不空虚。心里没有的，怎么有友谊？心里有为什么能叫做友谊呢？
男女活得虚假才拿友谊说话。友谊是什么？是一种互相的赏识，互相的相知。男女之间相知，能不会日久生情？能把握好尺度？
男女之间要么是陌路，要么就是藕断丝连，要么牵肠挂肚。男女之间没有真
正的友谊，友谊不过是个幌子，是欺骗别人欺骗不了自己的借口。
同事、同学之间的友谊只能说是有人在维护面子，有人在找一个借口，一定是想达到什么目的。人是最现实的情感动物。
男女之间只有那种很微妙的关系，没有纯洁的友谊，有纯洁的帮助，有纯洁的爱护，绝对没有所谓的友谊。友谊是什么？是一种互相的仰慕和尊重。男人和女人之间只有异性的吸引。有的人认为没有发生性行为，没有相互勾引，帮助不要报酬就是友谊，那完全把友谊的感念歪曲了。
友谊不是男女之间的事情，是同性之间的事情，异性只有相互的吸引。如果说不是相互的吸引，为什么你与自己身边的人没有友谊？
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