28岁的人生感悟
放弃
把握的反面就是放弃，选择了一个机会，就等于放弃了其他所有的可能。
当新的机会摆在面前的时候，敢于放弃已经获得的一切，这不是功亏一篑，这不是半途而废，这是为了谋求更大的发展空间；或者什么都不为，只因为喜欢这样做，因为，年轻就是最大的机会。人，只有在三十岁之前才会有这个胆量，有这个资本，有这个资格。 失恋
不是不在乎，是在乎不起。三十岁前最怕失去的不是已经拥有的东西，而是梦想。爱情如果只是一个过程，那么正是这个年龄应当经历的，如果要承担结果，三十岁以后，可能会更有能力，更有资格。其实，三十岁之前我们要做的事情很多，稍纵即逝，过久地沉溺在已经干涸的爱河的河床中，与这个年龄的生命节奏不合。
漂泊
漂泊不是一种不幸，而是一种资格。趁着没有家室拖累，趁着身体健康，此时不飘何时飘？当然，漂泊的不一定是身体，也许只是幻想和梦境。新世纪的时尚领袖是飘一代，渴望漂泊的人唯一不飘的是那颗心
失业
三十岁以前就尝到失业的滋味当然是一件不幸的事，但不一定是坏事。 三十岁之前就过早地固定在一个职业上终此一生也许才是最大的不
幸。失业也许让你想起埋藏很久而尘封的梦想，也许会唤醒连你自己都从未知道的潜能。也许你本来就没什么梦想，这时候也会逼着你去做梦。
失败
我的老师曾经跟我说，一个人起码要在感情上失恋一次，在事业上失败一次，在选择上失误一次，才能长大。不要说失败是成功之母那样的老话，失败来得越早越好，要是三十岁，四十岁之后再经历失败，有些事，很可能就来不及了。
代价
不是不计代价，而是要明白做任何事都要付出代价。对我们这个年龄的人来说，这绝不是一句废话。否则，要到三十岁的时候才会明白自己曾经付出了多少代价，却不明白为什么付出，更不明白自己得到了多少，得到什么。
孤独
这是为自由付出的代价。
压力
中年人能够承受多大压力检验的是他的韧性；年轻人能承受多大压力，焕发的是他的潜能。
薪水
只要是给人打工，薪水再高也高不到哪儿去。所以在三十岁之前，机会远比金钱重要，事业远比金钱重要，将来远比金钱重要。对大多数人来说，三十岁之前干事业的首要目标绝不是挣钱，而是挣未来。 在乎
这是一种拿不起、放不下的心态，它的反面不是放弃，而是天马行空，自由自在，永远保持革命乐观主义的精神
－－－－－－－一个很静的夜晚
第二篇：人生感悟—中英文对照
人的一生很短暂，应该学会为自己而活，想做的事情就要去做，不要等到老了，就只剩下后悔。
Person's life is very short, should learn to live for yourself, want to do is to do it, don't wait for old age, can only regret.
人死了，一切都会结束，唯一的意义就在于：我们能为这个世界做点什么。就能留下我们改变世界的痕迹。
People die, it will all come to an end, the only meaning lies in: what can we do for the world. Can we change the world impression.
很多事情发生了，让我们很纠结。这些纠结的事情会整日的缠绕着我们，让我们的包袱越来越重，最后只会越走越慢，停滞不前。所以，人应该学会遗忘，因为有些事情发生了就改变了，不如放下，继续前行。有些事情，随着岁月的推移，就会自我修复。所以，我们应该学会包容一切，只有这样，你才能走得更远。
A lot of things happened, let's struggle. These tangled things will all day with us, let's burden is getting heavier and heavier, the last is only going to get more slow, stagnant. So, people should learn to forget, because some things have changed, not put down, to move on. There are some things, with the passage of time, will repair themselves. So, we should learn to tolerate everything, only in this way, you can go further.
生命的每一刻都是宝贵的，要学会管理时间，规划自己。
Every moment of life is precious, to learn to manage time, planning.
人的每一刻都有其存在的价值，不要老是活在回味过去的状态，否者你永远只能活在痛苦里。
Have its existence value of every moment, don't always live in the past state aftertaste, because otherwise you will forever live in the pain.
要学会享受和珍惜当下的幸福。
Learn to enjoy and cherish the present happiness.
没事的时候，应该多学点东西，说不准哪一天你就用上了，那时你会感到轻松很多。
All right, you should learn more things, can't tell which day you have, then you'll feel a lot easier.
永远都要给自己留后路，给自己留尊严。不要为了爱情付出一切，那么到最后你只会失去所有。
Never go backward, to give herself to leave their dignity. Don't do anything for love, so in the end you will only lose all.
对待男人，不能太好，你不能为他做好所有，而不去保养自己，你要有自己的世界。让他知道：你离开他，照样可以活的很好。要让他有一种时时刻刻要失去你的感觉。
Treat a man, not too good, you can't do all for him, and not to maintain oneself, do you want to have their own world. Let him know that you leave him, still can live well. Let him have a feeling that always want to lose you.
男人是一种爱挑战的动物，不要让他觉得他已经得到你了。
Man is a kind of animal, love challenges don't let him think he has to get you. 不要把自己完全暴露在他面前，他喜欢神秘。
Don't expose yourself to be totally in front of him, he like a mystery.
你的不能世界只有他，也要给自己留一点空间。
You can't the world only he, also want to give yourself a little space. 每一个刻都有它幸福的点，要找出那个点。
Every moment has its happy point, to find out the point.
人总会做错事，要学会原谅自己，宽恕自己，安慰自己。
People always do the wrong thing, forgive yourself, forgive yourself, comfort myself.
成功的人都是坚持到最后的人。
Successful people are hold out until the last man.
不要抱怨，要学会改变心态，只有这样，你才能改变你所处的环境。
Don't complain, just learn to change state of mind, only in this way, can you change your environment.
要相信自己的性格和胆子都能通过锻炼，得到改变。
To believe that his character and courage can through exercise, have to change.
很多事情不要逃避，要学会面对。
A lot of things don't evade, must learn to face.
不要只想不做，那样什么也改变不了。
Don't just can't do, that doesn't change anything.
很多事情，不要相信别人嘴里说的，只有自己做了才知道真相。
Said a lot of things, don't believe in other people's mouth, only do it himself
didn't know the truth.
如果想要进步，就要突破之前安逸的生活环境，要勇于尝试。
If you want to progress, to break through before a comfortable living environment, to have the courage to try.
许多事情，看起来很难，起步做起来很难，但是只要你尝试了，并且努力坚持了，细细分析，就会变得容易。
Start many things, it seems very difficult, it's hard to do, but as long as you try, and try to stick to the careful analysis, it becomes easy.
做人要心胸宽广，不要计较一时的得失，也许在未来的某一天你就会得到加倍的回报。
Be broad-minded, don't care about at that time the gain and loss, maybe one day you will get double the return.
做事要给别人留有余地，否者有一天，你会被别人堵死。
To leave room for others, no one day, you will be blocked.
能简单的事，绝不办复杂。
Can the simple things, not complicated.
要有爱心，学会从帮助他人中得到快乐。这也是一种人脉的投资。
Want to have love, learn to extract pleasure from helping others. It is also a kind of network investment.
做人不要自顾自己，要学会有肉大家吃。
Life don't leave yourself, learn to have meat to eat.
不要做一枝独秀，除非你比别人优秀很多倍。要学会谦逊。
Don't outshine others, unless you are better than others a lot of times. To learn humility.
态和性格决定命运。
State of mind and character determines destiny.
智商能为你带来一份好工作，情商能给你带来一份好前程。
Intelligence can bring a good job for you, emotional intelligence can bring you a good future.
一时的诡计得逞，迟早有一天大家会唾弃你。
A trick, sooner or later everyone will spit on you.
你做十件好事别人记不得，你做一件坏事，别人永远远离你。
Ten good thing you do not remember others, you are doing a bad thing, others never away from you.
你的起点决定你的终点。
The starting point of you decided to your destination.
爱情并不是所有，要学会陪好自己。
Not all love and learn to accompany of yourself.
你想和什么样的人在一起，首先就要成为什么样的人。不要想着王子公主的故事，那不属于你。
What kind of person you want to and together, what will be in the first place. Don't think the story of the prince and princess, that does not belong to you. 心 女人的内涵远比美貌重要。它就像酒越久越醇。
The connotation of women is far more important than beauty.
It's like the longer the more alcohol wine.
没事的时候多看几本书。
It's okay when read a few books.
如果不能改变，就要学会忘记，如果不能忘记，就要学会放下。
If you can't change, will learn to forget, if can't forget, learn to put down. 如果一个人能够控制住自己的情绪，那么他将无往不利。
If a person can control his emotions, so he will be successful.
尝试有可能失败，不去尝试，你连成功的机会都没有。
Try to likely to fail, don't try, you don't even have the chance of success. 你能做的事，远超出你的你的想象，只是没有逼到那份上。 You can do, far beyond your imagination, you just don't have to force on it. 人在关键的时刻，总是自私的。I我已习惯等待你。 I have been used to waiting for you.
我觉得，我已经学会心态平和地去面对你，不再那么渴望你能和我有结果。 I think, I have learned to calm to face you, no longer so eager to can you and I have the result.
有梦想的人才不会孤单。
A person with a dream will not lonely.