找寻人生的魔方
——观《当幸福来敲门》有感
第四次看《当幸福来敲门》,感慨,触动,还是伴随着生活的真实迎面而来。 好的影片,也许就是妙在能够在某一时刻某个场景与你产生情感共鸣,那种感情的契合恰到好处,就像两个久未见面的老朋友,彼此寒暄和问好,熟悉而亲切。《当幸福来敲门》之于自己,就是这样的一部好电影。
威尔.斯密斯的经典演绎,诠释了现实生活的诸多无奈,诠释着小人物追求幸福的奢望和艰难,但同时,他更多的诠释出了一个人能够认清自身并决心为改变固有命运而努力奋斗的重要意义。抛开一切,我在想,还记得影片中的那个小小的魔方吗?那个让克里斯.加德纳从始至终都相信自己能行的“小玩意儿”?它究竟代表着什么?
我们还记得克里斯的经典名言之一:“你有梦想的话你就得去捍卫它,那些自己没有成材的人会说你也不能成材,但是别让别人说你不行”。他是这么说的,也是这么做的,而且最终,他做到了。因为他始终相信自己在哪一方面更有优势,对自己“几斤几两”了如指掌,用职场的话来讲,就是他把自己的定位看的很透彻。也正是基于这样一个信念,克里斯把一个小小的魔方“玩”到了极致,甚至因此走上了改变他命运的奋斗之路。魔方的触动,让他坚信了自己的选择,并决心用行动捍卫它,捍卫自己的梦想。可以说,剧中的魔方对于克里斯而言是一把开启他人生智慧的金钥匙,是它无形之中启迪了克里斯,再加上克里斯之后始终如一的信念,终于造就了他的成功。
在这里,我想说,魔方也许只是个能够很形象地表达出一个人在哪一方面最具优势的固有化的物件。很多时候,你不知道自己在哪一方面具有天赋,或者你对自己的优势不清晰,于是造成了你的盲目,你的不坚定,你的犹豫不决。但是,你有认真地,真正地想过自己的“魔方”究竟在哪里吗?你盲目,你不坚定,你犹豫的时候,有没有想过,自己真正做的是不是自己内心最强烈需要被激发的潜能?你正在做的,是自己最擅长并且愿意为之付出任何代价的事业吗?
克里斯说他精通数字,于是他能够把一个魔方在走过几个街区的时间内完完整整的拼出来,当所有人都在嘲笑甚至不以为然他能做到的时候,他却恰恰用执着和信念完成了“不可思议”的事情。于是,他更加坚定,自己确实精通数字,
适合并且能够在数字工作方面有所作为,他愿意为之而进行6个月的无薪生活的冒险,他愿意承受上层社会和无奈生活的两极奔波和辛劳。因为他知道自己的内心究竟在追求着什么, 这是他真正的事业,是他能够做好,并且一定能够做好的事业。
所以,当我们为克里斯取得最后成功而欣喜不已的时候,我们不妨回过头来看看他成功的不易。有人说,成功不付出应有的代价,是不可能的,我们不得不承认,这句话,某种程度上也算得上是至理名言。克里斯为自己的成功付出的代价是什么?——苦、涩、酸、甜,甜在他追求到了自己的Happiness(幸福)。那么,你准备为自己的成功付出怎样的努力和代价呢?你,准备好了吗?
当我们高谈阔论成功,意气风发未来的时候,不妨让我们静下心来,真正地想一想,我们最需要和最擅长做什么?找到自己的事业,然后下定决心,捍卫梦想,不允许别人说我们不行。
谈及生活,感受时光,我们比着克里斯是幸福的,因为我们还年轻;问及梦想,把握成功,我们比着克里斯又是不足的,因为我们也许还没有找到自己的事业“魔方”。而当下我们需要做什么呢?因为我们还年轻,于是我们更有追求幸福的权利和资本。
摒去浮躁,沉心做事;几度辗转,岁月沉浮。某天,也许你会发现,原来你所做的,正是你的人生魔方。2012.08.09.
第二篇:当幸福来敲门影评英文版
A Review of《The Pursuit of Happiness》
I have seen《The Pursuit of Happiness》 several days ago , but I can?t forget Chris and his spirits until now . To be honest , this move is really a big shock to me , and the strong power in Chris has been influencing me all the time .
Characters and the climate
There are mainly three characters : Chris Gardner 、Christopher、 Linda ,and the leading character is Chris Gardner ,the father. The whole atmosphere is positive ,though there is a large part describing the bitter struggles of Chris ,his spirit is inspiring , and there is no disappear but hope and stable belief in happiness.
Development of events
The story of Chris Gardner is divided into six part ,I will introduce them one by one .
Part one : Riding the bus
It was in San Francisco 1981, Chris spent all his money on buying medical equipments , but later he found that they were unpopular among doctors ,because they were expensive and almost useless . everyday he did his best to promote the equipment to doctors ,but he can?t earn enough for the rent and kindergarten , his life was not easy .
Part two: Being stupid
In this part ,Chris had to apply for a work as a stock woker ,so he left the medical equipment with a girl ,but the girl took it away ! what a accident !
Part three : Running
He rann after the girl who had stolen the equipment ,finally ,he took it back ,another situation is that he had no money for the taxi ,so he escaped ;Third ,he was sent to the prison for owing the taxes ,and the next morning ,he ran to the stock company for a interview with paint stains on his body .
Part four : Internship
Chris got the job as a internship for six months without salary ,,it was really a hard time for him ,he had to sell the equipment while working as a internship. Afterall , he earned some money from the medical equipments
Part five : Paying taxes
In this part ,there was a big hit to him ,the government took $600 from his account and he only had $21.33 left ,he was broke again .this part was the most impressive but inspiring one .During that time ,he and his son spent a night in the WC ,and lived in the church hospice for many days ,although there were many barriers ,he carried on seeking for the happiness.
Part six : Happiness
It was an exciting part ,Chris was succeed ,and he did it finally ,he became a successful stock worker!
My views on the story
After the move ,I thought of many things :we hold these truths to be self-evident that all men are created equally , that they are endowed by their creator with certain unalienable rights ,that among these are life ,liberty and the pursuit of happiness . I think Chris must have read the above paragraph for many times and believed it unswervingly.
At the beginning of the move, after Chris has sent Christopher to the kindergarten , he saw a wrong word on the wall ,and said the famous sentence : There is no ?Y? in happiness ,the only thing we can do is striving for our own happiness voluntarily .Just like Chris do.
The silly scene of taking a bus was a part of Chris Gardner?s life , in the move , Chris Gardner ,a poor father ,who had his wife left him ,because she could?t handle her life without financial security .while Chris was selling medical equipment to doctors , she decided get away from her poor family . Although under great pressure , Chris chose to stick it out, and fight for what he known he can do ,for him ,and for his son. He is strong in spirit ,whatever barriers he meet ,he just continued his work and never stopped running .but it looks like that god likes to play tricks with him , he had gone through more hardships than others before the final success .
I think it is really a good move ,we are unique and we are ourselves ,just hold a dream and do what you can do ,and do your best ,don?t ever let somebody tell you that you can?t do something .If you want something ,go and get it . It is said that the move is from a true story ,so we should believe the sentence that “Everything is possible” .
Like Chris?s forefathers ,who posses the desire and the passion to live it ,who dream the American dream . In the end he finally made his dream come true ,he became a banker. “Hey ,dad ,listen to this ,knock, knock ”I know who was there .he was happiness .
? The Pursuit of Happiness is really an excellent move , after watching
it ,I can?t calm my heart down for a long time,there are tears on my face ,but smile in my heart ,I think Chris is a good example for all of us ,just be optimistic and go to realize your dream. Chris Gardner:You have a dream, you
got to protect it.
克里斯·加德纳:如果你有梦想,就要守护它。
? Chris Gardner:People can't do something by themselves; they wanna tell you you can not do it.
克里斯·加德纳:当人们做不到一些事情的时候,他们就会对你说你也同样不能。
? Chris Gardner:You want something. Go get it!
克里斯·加德纳:有了目标就要全力以赴。
? Martin Frohm: What would you say if man walked in here with no shirt, and I hired him? What would you say?
马丁:如果我雇佣了一个没有穿着衬衫走进来的人,你会怎么说? Chris Gardner: He must have had on some really nice pants.
克里斯·加德纳:他一定穿了一条很棒的裤子。
? There is an I in "happiness", There is no Y in "happiness", It's an I
幸福的幸里面是一个“幸”,不是一个“辛”。或者理解成,Y=Why=为什么,I=我。幸福里面没有 为什么,只有我。