生而永思

昨晚收到《培训资料》后，我就开始阅读，我知道离上交读后感时间不远了。我泡上一杯开水暖手，开始漫长的阅读，由于睡得太晚，今天上午十点多才起床。二十四篇资料中第二、三、四、五、七、八、十一、十二、十四、十五、十六、十九、二十、二十二、二十三、二十四篇我都读了四遍或四遍以上。现在我开始了对这几天在慧桥工作的思考。我思考主要得到了以前见过的一句话——生而永思。 我爱好阅读，我最喜欢戴尔·卡耐基，因为我喜欢《人性的弱点》。《人性的弱点》教会了我思考的方法，现在我也有我自己的思考方式，《人性的弱点》也成了我心中的《圣经》。生而永思，我思考了目前的学习、如何做好慧桥的工作与做人。

作为一名本科生，向前跨一步就是考研，虽说本科生不一定要考研，但我相信当志向远大到某种程度，考研便成了第一选择。《培训资料十四》中，我对“关于考研”部分进行了深入思考。在第一部分“考研的动机分析”我结合自己的实际情况思考，我认为就以下三点足够成为我的考研动机：1、通过第二次高考拿到更好的文凭（这个想法非常单纯）；2、更重要的是提升专业理论水平，我们二本学院出来，拥有的竞争力量非常小，所以必须考研；3、生物工程是一门新型高端科学，一本学院出来都不一定有人要，更何况二本，所以要考研，而且还要考一所好大学。

对第二部分“为什么要考研的理性分析”的思考，同样是结合我自己的实际情况，我认为我的情况可以给此部分中提到的四点四个对

应的肯定的答复。1、我的职业目标是当一名科学家，进入一家对口公司或研究院工作，可能的话还会进入某所大学教书（因为大学教书的同时可以搞研究）；2、搞研究是我学习生物的方向和出路，我在初三时就立下这个目标，所以高中我选理科，大学我学生物，因此，再付出三、四年读研，我认为是百分之百的值得；3、我已经在学习生物上花了不少时间与精力，说实话目前生物就业形式不是很好，但若我因此放弃，只是读过书的人都会瞧不起我！世界上只有一个联合国秘书长，但还是要一个人去当，若都因竞争大而放弃，不就群龙无首了吗？更何况世界上的生物学家千千万万！其实我还有一个想法：若生物学家当不成，我便从政，我一直都相信我的组织领导能力与人际关系；4、我说过生物工程是一门新型高端科学，文凭对其非常重要，实际上研究生的学位还太低。

至于第三部分“怎么去考研”，我没有去很细地思考，因为一直有专门的老师给我们讲生物工程的考研方法。

对与《培训资料十四》中的“关于恋爱”与“关于社会实践”我也看了几遍，已经能够说出大意。没有深入思考是因为我给自己定下了一条小原则——二十三岁前不谈恋爱，而且社会实践可以说是我给自己定下的每年的必修课。

高中毕业后的那个暑假我成立过“石渡家教”，这是一个小小的组织，成员都是我同学，专为我们自己在暑假找一份家教。我们当时定的价格非常低，所以说我们并不是为了赚钱。我记得进慧桥前的面试，主任似乎对我曾经成立过“石渡家教”比较感兴趣，我意识到“石

渡家教”给主任留下了好的印象。今天我在慧桥工作也一样，我并不是为了赚钱，我是为了丰富自己的经历与人生。

我是个新老师，在我自己上课之前我听了几堂课，现在我又仔细阅读了《培训资料二》，结合我以前的家教经验，我又获得了新的教学方式知识：《培训资料二》中（一）→①→D：表达你对他们每个人都有美好未来的坚定信心；（三）→D: 传授社交礼仪、I：根据学生的最大利益做事情；（四）→A: 点燃学生心中的火苗、G：经常向学生表示感谢；而（六）关于工作笔记与学生评价，可以说我以前做家教就没这意识。我开始思考《培训资料二》中的教学方法，并且对每一个方法都能尽可能想起一个学生，好尝试对症下药。

我做家教也见过不少学生，好的就跟着老师来，还有两个极端：一个是反正不做声，问他才有一点反应，知道点头、不知道摇头，就是不提问；另一个是什么都问，如上物理课时打比方足球场是个原子，中间的一只蚂蚁就是原子核，学生就问：蚂蚁会爬到足球场外面去，原子核会跑到原子外面去吗？但我听课时注意到一个女孩子，她是一个新类型，上课时她就喜欢玩，老师阻止她，她就撒娇说:“我画完这个蜡笔小新就不玩了”，这类学生我是第一次遇到。对于喜欢什么都问的学生，我认为《培训资料二》中的（四）有效，我们可以先肯定她这个问题问得好，然后根据她所提问题本身的特点，对这个比方进行加工，如蚂蚁只能在球场中心圆圈里跑动，球场其他地方有其他蚂蚁，它一出去就会被推进来，而其他蚂蚁正好比作电子。

当我看到《培训资料二》中的（四）→D时，我回忆起做家教时

一位男生喜欢玩枪，我给他讲平抛运动的时候，我要他将自己的玩具水枪拿过来，以水枪为例给他将平抛运动，结果在很少的课时内他对平抛运动的掌握很好。

我思考了《培训资料二》，结合自己的小经验，我很自信能将在慧桥的教育工作做好。

在昨晚收到的所有《培训资料》中，基本上每一份都涉及做人，但是我想谈谈新老师培训时主任对我们说过的话。

不可否认，主任的口才一流，那天主任对我们新老师讲的话中，我认为第一句和第三句对我们做人很有帮助。第一句：做自己的主人。①.我是谁？我认为我是个男人，负责任、有同情心、有感恩之心、勤劳、能吃苦、稳重，但又很固执、小心眼，有时候脾气还很臭。②.我想要什么？在漫长的人生道路上，有数不清的经历，我要的只是在老了以后回看自己的一生，我问心无愧。记得有一次从张谷英回岳阳，那个售票员忘了买我的票，不给她钱谁也不知道，也没人会看自己，但我还是给了她十七块钱。③.我能做什么？我自认为我能力较强，能做者颇多，但所做也要对得起自己的良心。就在昨天，化学班班长的QQ挂在我电脑上，自己去献血了，不巧的是他们班的学习委员与英语代表在期末英语复习方法上发生分歧，在经过他同意后我以他的身份处理了这件事，但没有让他们班同学知道是我做的，因为他班上同学会认为这是班上的耻辱。我认为这件事我做的对，所以我问心无愧。

第三句话：把职业化当作人生的大目标。做人不仅仅是完善自己

的人格，还要提高自己的认识、行为水平。我们要提升自己的职业技能，见识社会职场，为以后的工作增加经验，将自己训练成有素的社会人士。大学即小社会，在大学我们能学到职业技能，见识社会，但是见识职场却很难，更不用说在社会职场上成为一名有素人士。职场就必须去工作，这也是我愿意来慧桥历练的原因之一。

那天晚上从慧桥培训回来后，我拿一个小本写下了自己做人方面的一些小原则，加上以前写的共有五十三条之多。直到现在我从没违反过上面的小原则，做到并不难，因为那上面的小原则都很容易做到，只要时常看一下，就能坚持、就能一如既往。在已过去的二十个春秋中，后面十几个春秋我未曾后悔，因为我一直记得我爸爸曾经跟我说：“永远不要后悔，哪怕是你犯错了，犯错了就要吸取教训”，很高兴我做到了我爸爸对我的要求。

生而永思，思考不能停止。如果有人问我进去才这么久，收获会有这么大？我认为只要思考，就会有收获，哪怕只是进去看上一眼。

第二篇：慧的读后感

Feelings of Reading Tess of The D'urbreville

I have read the book,Tess of the d'urbrevilles.Tess is the heroine of the novel,is a beautiful and virtuous girl.Because of the poor family,she follows her parents' order to go to the landlords' that has the same family name as her to work.Unfortunately,Mrs d'urbreville,outraged her.She gets away from him and gives birth to a child.Not a long time later,the child died.Tess is very sad.Wanting to escape the past,she decides to leave her hometown,she goes to a cattle farm,then becomes a dairymaid.There,she falls in deep love with a gentle man named Angle Clare,who is the son of the pastor.After marriages to him,she tells her husband the fact that she has been outraged in order to beg forgiveness for what she had happened.But,Angle seems as forgetting that he has been made when tossed about by doubts and difficulties in London,like a cork on the waves and Tess forgives him,then he leaves Tess alone to go to Brazil.A year later,Mr d'urbrevilles,comes to her and forces her to shack up with him.A few years later,Angle Clare decides to come back to Tess with his illness,at the moment,he beholds Tess,he knows that he is late and leaves disappointly.To his surprises,Tess catches him up and she kills Mr d'urbreville.Tess asks Angle to marry her sister Lisa.Little time later,she is caught up and she accepts it quietly.Then she died. The first part and second part is the Maiden and Maiden no more.In this part,the author told us that Tess was a fine and handsome girl,not handsomer than some others,possibly-but her mobile peony mouth and large innocent eyes adds eloquence to color and shape .But after experience a series of troubles and difficulties,she became a complex woman ,though she was still a fine creature,her aspect was fair and graceful.The third part is The Rally,In this part,this beautiful woman fell in love with a gentleman named Angle Clare.The next part is The Consequence.In this part,Tess was left by her husband alone.The fifth part is the Woman Pays.In this part ,poor Tess was working hard and waiting for her husband.The next part is The Convert.In this part ,she was forced to shack up with Mr d'urbreville.The last part is The Fullfillment.In this part,the couple had a happy night,and at last,Tess was caught.

When you read the book,you will find that you can't help bursting into tears now and then,you cant' help making a fist then you want to beat d'urbreville,you can't help thinking whether we should help Tess.

Tess is a pitiful girl.Because of poor family,because of her mistakes,because of her sister's words;''But for you didn't make the horse die,father wouldn't have coughed and creeped about as he does,and wouldn't have got too tipsy to go this journey and mother wouldn't have been always washing,and never getting finished.''Because of her thinking,''since I had dragged my parents into this question,I could do to help them out of it.Because of her kindness,because of her strong sense of responsibility,she decides to work.However,tragedy happened.Even though she suffering from the difficulties,she didn't give up.She chose a positive attitude to life.She is a powerful girl.

Tess is a pitiful girl.When she told Angle about all her stories,Angle didn't forgive her and left her alone.It is another hit on Tess's broken heart.Tess forgives Angle,but Angle is unworthy of Tess.When Tess waiting for her husband,she wrote many letters to Angle.The content is so moved.She said ;''Angle,I live entirely for you.I love you too much to blame you for going away.If you will send me one little line,and say ,I'm coming soon .''I'll bide on .She sticks to waiting her husband,she still falls in deep love with her husband.Even though she was deserted by her husband,she still thinks he is all her life,he is all her soul.It's amazing. Tess is a pitiful girl.In that time ,,males and females are unfair all the time ,males can do what they want to do ,but females are not .Even though males do many wrong things,they also can get forgiveness again and again.It's a ridiculous thing.Nowadays,laws have an important influence on society and people.Laws can help people solve all kinds of problems,so Tess is a sufferer in that time,she suffered from these things alone ,she is a pitiful girl.

Tess of the d'urbreville is a classic novel.Reading the book we gets so many experiences and knowledges.We shocked by this novel.When we meet anything in everywhere,we should stick to it and never give it up easily.With the permission of the situation,we could try our best to solve the problems.Sometimes,ability is a very important feature to ourselves.We should improve ourselves.

Love is a eternal topic.Elizabeth Barrett Browning had ever said;''I love you not only for what you are,but for what I am when I am with you .We should treat love by our true attitude.Perhaps,we can learn Tess to wait,to love,but sometimes,we also should think

twice,sometimes,someone is meaningful to us but someone is not.Authors expresses his pity to heroine,expresses his angry and hateful to hero,expresses people' stupid in that time,he uses the ordinary words stresses the ideals in the passage.He want to expresses his ideals and his attitude to the world,by the way ,he becomes the famous writer,therefore,the novel becomes the best -seller book.So It's necessary for us to read this good novel.