德伯家的苔丝读后感
读完哈代的《德伯家的苔丝》这本书,很长时间,也不知道自己心里是什么滋味,也许,是被苔丝那种刻骨铭心的爱所打动,以前在读中国著作的时候,也深深体会到“上邪,我欲与君相知,长命无绝哀,山无陵,江水为竭,冬雷震震夏雨雪,天地合,乃敢于君绝!的这种感情,但是还是被苔丝所受的那种苦和爱的坚贞所打动,但是,不管怎么样,读完后,我一直在思考,导致最后是这样一个结果的原因是什么?
是因为德北对苔丝所做的一些事儿导致苔丝最后这个样子,还是因为苔丝对克莱的爱太专一,还是因为克莱没有及时联系苔丝,才导致悲剧的发生,还是因为苔丝家境的原因,如果,苔丝的父母亲有一定的能力,也不至于苔丝第二次接受德北的侮辱,还是因为当时的制度,总之,这是一个综合的原因才导致最后这一结局。
首先,我感觉是苔丝本身的原因,如果,苔丝,不是那么的顺从于她的情人或者可以说是自己的丈夫,在很多很多次时,他都可以说出自己真正的想法的,比如,在他们把那些被时光掩盖的秘密都说出来的第二天,克莱在梦游中,不顾及他们两个生命的安危,走过那座河,嘴里还哼着是怎么怎么的喜欢苔丝,如果,苔丝把这一切都告诉他的话,那么,或些许,克莱就会揭开自己的面子,才发现自己的内心是多么的热爱苔丝,或许,他可以认识到,在自己无意识的时候说出来的话才是自己最正式的想法。
还有,通过读《德伯家的苔丝》这本书,让我对信仰有了一个深刻的认识,不管你信奉上帝还是基督,都不会彻底的改变一个人,如果说,要是这个人得到而改变,也是其自己出于真心的想改变或者自己的性格所致,因为,这一点在德北身上就是一个很好的反映,其原来放荡不羁的性格,虽然经过基督的教导,也通过自己的讲道来巩固但是,在遇见苔丝之后,一切就都变了,其原来的本性就原形毕露,一点改变都没与,非得说出变化来,那就是比原来更会为自己开脱,为自己辩解,其他的改进没有一点。
如果,克莱不是那么度感情有自控力的话,如果,他内心多一点的感动,如果,他他不是那么里理性的话,那么,或许当苔丝向他标靶的时候,或者更确切地说是向他求宽恕的时候,他站在苔丝的角度上思考一下,或许结局就有不一样的转
机。
或许,再说,如果苔丝的父母能够勤快一点,那么,这么艰苦的生活就不会落在泰斯的身上,或者可以说,当老德北去世后,至少,他们不至于连一丁点的家当都没有, 不至于让苔丝想到的妈妈还有自己的弟弟妹妹而难过, 所以,才不得不答应德北地处要求,但是,本身是爱克莱的,所以,当看见自己的真丈夫回来找自己得到时候,那种就能退两男的地步,才使苔丝做出导致自己不可在生存下来的结果。
总之,读完这本小说,让我有了很多的思考,想着自己如果在谈恋爱或者说是找老公的的时候,一定不能隐藏自己的感情,同时,要及时的和自己的爱人沟通,只有沟通才能是对方更加的了解自己,才能更加的认识他们现在所处的现状,就像一样,也是因为在沟通上的迟延,才使苔丝对他失去了希望,跟随了德北。同时,在以后谈恋爱的时候也不需要过分的含蓄,在此时,也需要适度的为自己着想,如果只是一心一意的为对方考虑,完全忽略了自己的话,那最后的结果只有自己的不幸,或者说两人的不幸以告终。
总之,还是佩服哈代这位大家的,因为,一般可以写出这种百年不衰的著作,或者这种悲剧的著作,都是把自己的伤疤撕开给读者来看,还有,当评论一个著作的时候都要和当时写作背景要紧密联系,可以说,哈代把当时的社会环境惊醒很细致的描述,看《德伯家的苔丝》就让我想到国内的路遥著作的《平凡的世界》一样,虽然结局不是很像当时他们对当时的社会状况都有一个很好的反映。 还有从《德伯家的苔丝》这本著作中,还体会到了一种开放,就是克莱的父亲对其自身的一个教育和对其婚姻观的表态都是很开放的,包括他的母亲,在当时都是很民主的或者说是开放的。
好了,先这样吧!总之从这本书中,学到了不少,不只是苔丝的悲情,还要有各方面的 成长,也许虽然一些经历自己么偶有亲身经历过,但是,从书本中,学到了一种更为深刻的见解。
第二篇:德伯家的苔丝简介
As is known to all, Tess of the D'Urbervilles is the most famous novel of Thomas Hardy. Focusing on the tragic experience of its heroine Tess, the plot of story begins. Tess comes from a farmer’s family, the Durbeyfields. She has lived a poor but peaceful life. However, God, “The President of the Immoral” begins to play a cruel joke on this innocent girl. One day her father, John Durbeyfied learns that they are descended from the D’Urbervilles, an ancient ['ein??nt]family once renowned in England. Tess’s parents are in an ecstasy ['ekst?si] of delight over the news. Her mother urges [?:d?] Tess to claim kinship with the remaining D’Urbervilles, so that Tess could marry a gentleman. Unwillingly ['?n'wili?li] , the girl comes in contact with the Stoke, D’Urbervilles. There she meets Alec D’Urbervilles, who shows off the estate and always seduces [si'dju:s, -'du:s-] her. Having received a job of tending to chickens, Tess stays in the D’Urbervilles. Her tragic life has just begun. Before long the rich and guileful ['ɡailful] Alec manages to seduce the girl and make her pregnant ['preɡn?nt]. Being humiliated and resolute ['rez?lju:t, -l?t], Tess returns home. Despite the rumors all around, she gives birth to a child, who is called Sorrow but dies soon because of grave illness. For several weeks, Tess is overwhelmed by grief and sorrow. Nevertheless, without financial support, Tess has to leave home and goes to work as a dairymaid ['dε?rimeid] at a distant farm, where she meets Angel Claire克莱儿. They have met each other before, and Tess has made a favorable impression on Angel. After Angel persistent [p?'sist?nt, pursuit of Tess, the two fall in love and become engaged. Then comes the wedding night, too honest to keep any secret, Tess admits about Alec D’Urbervilles and the child. She begs for forgiveness, but Angel leaves her in disgust [dis'ɡ?st]. Tess again returns home alone, only find that her family remains impoverished [im'p?v?ri?t] and she even has no place to stay. In the meantime, Alec D’Urbervilles, the evil ['i:v?l] person appears again. He takes advantage of the Durbeyfields’ poverty and continues to tempt Tess. He promises to support her family, only as a means to make Tess dependent. At the end of hope, the girl jumps into the trap of the shameless man. However, the tragedy has not finished yet. Angel Claire, who is remorseful[ri'm?:sful] for his mercilessness ['m?:silis], comes back, but to find the cruel ['kru:?l] reality. And his arrival makes Tess even more desperate ['desp?r?t]. After Angel leaves, she stabs Alec in the heart and kills him. Then she follows Angel and escape [i'skeip] with him. They manage to hide for a while in a wood before they come to Stonehenge [,st?un'hend?], where she is arrested. She is hanged [h??d] later. The turn of events and the moment of catharsis [k?'θɑ:sis] prove that the novel is a classic Aristotelian [,?rist?'tilj?n] tragedy