Department:机电工程系

Class: 电气B084班(分级B087班)

Group members :

General purpose:to inform

Specific purpose:to inform college students how to deal with interpersonal relationship.

Thesis statement:in the thesis the writers tell the importance and methods of interpersonal relationship to students.

College Interpersonal Relationship

Good afternoon,ladies and gentlemen:

What is learnt in the university besides knowledge? Why we go to university instead of going to society?As university students ,we should train various kinds of ability,for instance,interpersonal relationship,independence, innovation, grasp information ability , learning ability and so on.Among them the cultivation of interpersonal relationship is particularly important.

Marx ,the greatest philosopher, once said: People are the totality of different social relationships.Everyone does not exist by himself.He is related to various kinds of social relationships.University life is a turnning point from tower of ivory to society.And university interpersonal relationship is also part of society interpersonal relationship.It has great effect in physical and mental health.At the same time ,it also promote their maturity and development .However ,when people were in middle school with heavy pressure,they did’t aware this kind of relationship,which made them selfish and cold. Even though they have entered university, they still

have no idea about how to deal with relationships between his classmates.And then follows many problems.

In a reserch given by a authority department,the barrier in handling relationships can be summarized as lack of intimate friends,difficulties in communicating with someone,infrequency in communicating process,troubles in communicating and fear in interpersonal relationship.If the problems stated above can’t be solved timely, he will have psychology illness.What’s worse,it may bring hurt to not only himslf but also others and then at last breaks the law.So how to deal with relationships is of great importance.

The core of interpersonal relationship is coorperation and commuication.You should firstly be honest to others because honesty is the most valuabe treasure in the world.Only honesty can gain coorperation and commuication.The principle of interpersonal relationship are as follows.

(1) principle of equality:in our socialism society

the first and most important thing you should insist is that everyone is equal in interpersonal

relationship.No matter it is public or personal communication,no matter he or she is noble or formal,we should all in the same height.

(2) principle of tolerace:there are different kinds

of people in college and you should tolerate various customs and languages.No matter you have similarity or difference,you both can be good friends.Only by this can you improve youself deeply.

(3) principle of reciprocity and mutual benefit:it

means the reciprocity and mutual benefit between the people .Interpersonal relationship is bidirectional,it can’t last for a long time if just one person benefit from it.Only both persons get beneficial advantages can it continue.So everyone should pay and consecrate,both physical and mental.

(4) principle of good faith:we all hate being

cheated by others.So faith is very important via communicating.If you have promised something to others ,you should stick to it and do everything you can to make it come true.

(5) principle of forgiveness:it means don’t deal in

micrograms.There is no doubt that contradictions will occur in interpersonal relationship.Thus you’d better learn how to stand others’attitudes and words.If the problems happen in your side,you should admit your mistakes and undertake responsiblities.Only in this way can your froze relationship be melted.

On the basic of these principles listed above,we should master some specific tips to further to develop the ability of interpersonal relationship.

(1) Even though you will meet so many people

in college,you’d better learn their name by heart.When you see him ,say “Hello!” to him initiativly and politely.

(2) Have good manners.Be easy to feel relaxed

so that stimulate contact motivation.

(3) Train lively personality and let others feel

pleasant when they stay with you.

(4) Make youself calm and reasonable.At the

same time ,don’t complain too often,which

may make both you and others happy.

(5) Comfort the hurt one.Encourage the failed

one.Help the one in trouble and congratulation to one’s achievements.

(6) Be independent and confident so that make

youself be faithful to others.

From all stated above,we get to know there is indeed something else we learn besides knowledge.That is interpersonal relationship.And then we go to college for that.If we step into this direction,we will find that everything is changing quietly.With time passing by, interpersonal relationship will be more natural and easier.At last,we will compose a perfect chapter in our university life.

Thank you!

第二篇：关于第三届“人文杯”大学生英文演讲赛邀请函

关于举办第三届“希望杯”大学生英语技能提升系列活动 之第三届“人文杯”大学生英文演讲大赛活动邀请函

各兄弟学院：

为增强我校学生了解英语，接触英语，学习英语，运用英语的热情，营造我校良好的英语学习氛围，提高我校学生英文应用的综合素质和能力，培养我校学生热爱英语、热爱生活、敢于创新的精神，现举办第三届“希望杯”大学生英语技能提升系列活动暨第三届“人文杯”大学生英文演讲大赛，现将活动有关事项通知如下：

一、活动背景

英语在现今和平崛起的中国日益重要，是这个时代的大学生必须掌握甚至精通的一种工具。公众演讲极具魅力，又富挑战性。英文演讲赛不仅可以考察参赛者的语音、语调、语色，更重要是能够帮助大家克服心理障碍，勇敢迈出至关重要的第一步，激发大家的最大潜力、表现力，特别是临场应对，反应能力，从而提高大家英文运用的综合素质和能力。英文演讲赛有利于提高我校学生的英语应用能力，为大家提供一个展示自我的机会，增强同学们对英语学习的热情，营造良好的英语学习氛围。

二、活动主题：诠释文化之韵 绽放英文魅力

三、活动对象：全校学生

四、活动目的：

激发当代大学生学习英语的兴趣，培养大学生热爱英语、热爱生活的情怀和敢于创新的精神。提高大学生综合素质和能力，挖掘具有演讲天赋的人才，为我校参加全国性的相关赛事培养人才。

五、活动地点

初赛： 10月12日 周五晚6：30 创新楼（暂定）

决赛： 10月19日 周五晚 6：30 校多功能厅（暂定）

六、主办单位： 共青团福建农林大学委员会

七、协办单位： 共青团人文社会科学学院委员会

八、举办单位： 人文社会科学学院学生技能中心英语专业部

九、赞助单位：待定

十、比赛流程及其规则：

（一）演讲主题：What We Cannot Afford To Lose

（二）本次比赛分为两个阶段：初赛、决赛。

1. 初赛：自愿报名并选出前20名进入决赛。

（1）比赛内容： 先进行命题演讲（限时3分钟），命题演讲结束后，评委提问1—2

个问题，选手回答限时1分钟。(超时扣分，根据现场情况决定)

（2）评委组成：评委人数不少于3人，以保证比赛的规范性、公平性与公正性。

（3）比赛形式：参赛选手按到场时间顺序进行演讲。

2. 决赛：

（1）参赛选手为初赛选出的前20名同学

（2）比赛由三部分组成：

A. 先进行命题演讲（限时3分钟），命题演讲结束后，评委提问1—2个问题，选手回答限时1分钟。（命题演讲的题目仍是本次大赛的主题）

B. 中场休息（前10位选手），观众互动环节

C.即兴演讲（选手准备30秒，回答限时2分钟）；即兴演讲是现场抽题现场回答。然后评委们用英语提问，可以是与主题有关的或是演讲者在演讲过程中涉及的问题或是评委感兴趣的问题，参赛者用英文回答。

附录 :

评委从演讲内容、语言表达、形象风度、综合印象四部分对演讲选手进行评分。满分为100分。评委打分后去掉一个最高分和一个最低分，汇总后取平均分，精确到小数点后两位，若出现同分，则精确到后三位，依此类推。

一、演讲内容：50分。要求演讲内容紧扣主题，主题鲜明、深刻，格调积极向上，语言自然流畅，富有真情实感。

二、语言表达：20分。要求脱稿演讲，声音洪亮，口齿清晰，语速适当，表达流畅，激情昂扬。讲究演讲技巧，动作恰当。超时扣5分。

三、形象风度：20分。要求衣着整洁，仪态端庄大方，举止自然、得体，体现朝气蓬勃的精神风貌；上下场致意，答谢。

四、综合印象：10分。由评委根据演讲选手的临场表现、观众反映做出综合演讲素质的评价。

十一、评奖办法

此次比赛设一等奖1名,二等奖2名,三等奖3名，优秀奖若干名。获奖选手将获得由举办方提供的证书和奖品。

十二、报名方式

请有意愿参赛的选手向班长报名，由班长汇总好班级报名情况（参赛选手的姓名、专业、年级、联系方式以及宿舍地址），汇总表于10月10日晚上9：00前发送至邮箱191537992@qq.com，文件名形式为“学院-年级-专业班级”

大赛举办方联系人：

陈同学：186xxxxxxxx 梁同学：188xxxxxxxx 共青团福建农林大学委员会 共青团人文社会科学学院委员会 人文社会科学学院学生技能中心英语专业部 二零一二年九月二十日