Recently, some of my classmates are confused and disappointed because they found that their gain is not equal to their pain. Concerning this problem, what I can say is, “just try your best”.

　　最近，我的一些同学感到迷茫，绝望，因为他们发现他们所得到的与所付出的并不相等。对于这个问题，我只能说: “竭尽全力去做吧”.

　　Life is not fair. We always say that, “no pain, no gain”, but we have to know another one—the gain is not always equal to the pain. Therefore, if you want to gain something, just try your best to do it, and do not count what you have pain. If you always count the time and the effort you spend in it, you will unconsciously have some expect in your mind. Once you find that your gain does not reach your expect, your confusion and disappointment will come into being.

　　生活是不公平的。我们常常说；“没有付出，就没有收获”，但是我们还有知道另外一点——收获并不总是和付出相等的。因此，如果你想要获得某些东西，那就竭尽全力去做，并且不要计算付出了多少。如果你总是计算你花费了多少时间和精力，你就会在心里有所期望。一旦你发现你所获得的没有达到你心里的期望值，你就会感到迷惑，感到失望。

　　Of course, most of us would feel confused and disappointed when we meet with difficulty or setback, but it should not keep for a long time. Our life is limited, and we need to seize the chance to restart after experiencing setback instead of indulge ourselves in negative moods and abandon ourselves so that we still have chances to achieve our goals and be successful.

　　当然，遇到困难和挫折时，我们大多数人都会感到迷惑和失望，但是这种状态不应该持续太久。我们的生命是有限的，因此在经历了挫折之后，我们必须抓住机会重新开始，而不是沉迷于消极情绪中自暴自弃，这样我们才有机会实现我们的目标，走向成功。

　　Therefore, just try your best. Try you best to do everything you value, and you will gain what you want some days and without any regret.

　　因此，竭尽全力去做吧。竭尽全力去做每一件你认为重要的事情，总有一天你会得到你想要的东西，并且毫无遗憾！

　　Sometimes my grandfather and grandmother will live in my house, I live in the city every day, so more love clean, but my grandparents are not too pay attention to health, but also to save. I often say to them, but they still do, teach me to say: "we want to save food."

　　有时我的爷爷和奶奶都会住在我的房子里，我每天都住在城里，所以更爱干净，但我的爷爷奶奶也不太讲究卫生，也节省了。我经常对他们说，但他们仍然这样做，教我说：“我们要节约粮食。”

　　And I have a father in the discussion of some of the more difficult math problems, but grandpa soon got the answer, I was shocked, because in my mind, my grandfather just only a kind of farmer, but did not think he should be a math problem.

　　和我有一个父亲在讨论一些比较困难的数学问题，但爷爷很快得到了答案，我感到震惊，因为在我的脑海里，我的祖父只是一个农民，但没有想到他应该是一个数学问题。

　　From then on, I have a great admiration for my grandfather, and I think "the old man said" is to listen to the. The old words are not necessarily valuable advice, some adults will teach the children according to their own experience, but the experience in this era will not work, really works or their own thoughts. therefore

　　从那时起，我非常钦佩我的祖父，我认为“老人说”是听的。旧的话不一定是有价值的建议，一些成年人会教孩子根据自己的经验，但在这个时代的经验将不会工作，真正的作品或自己的想法。因此

　　In listening to the old man said, not just listen, we must have their own ideas. If one day the adult is not in, also listen to whose words? So, in the process of listening, we need to have our own thoughts.

　　在听老人说，不只是听，我们必须有自己的想法。如果有一天大人不在，也听谁的话？所以，在倾听的过程中，我们需要有自己的想法。

　　Thank them.

　　感谢他们。