20岁看重是你可不可教。
不是每个人都是可造之材，有些人还真是朽木。摆出一副拒绝教化、爱谁谁的架势，请放心，这种情况没人上赶着去教化你。如果不是朽木，那你就得让自己看上去“孺子可教”的精进范儿和谦逊范儿，要学会用低姿态润滑周边环境，从而最大化的吸收前辈的指教。
30岁看重的是你可不可用。
你是不是有可用的专业价值？你是不是能够在某个局部担起重任？这个时候你首先要真有料，在某个领域有专业发言权，在整个价值链条中，证明你是不可或缺的。
40岁看重的是你可不可捧。
到这个时候你要么往上发展成为一个管理精英人物，要么家往下滑沦为一个人手。这时候你要收获里子面子，就看你是不是够格大家捧你，拿出肩膀出来给你垫。
50岁看中的是你可不可敬。
你的人格是否有厚度和深度，是否有成就组织的能力？让大家敬佩的人很多，让人敬重的人却很少，这是应为人格的内在力量不同。而这个时候，最大的破产就是人格破产。
在人生大计划赛场上，有一个上半场和下半场的时间节点。总体来说，40岁以前是人生的上半场，关键词是“不犹豫”。40岁以后是人生的下半场，关键词是“不后悔”。如果你搞得上半场犹豫，下半场后悔，那你的职场人生就悲催了！
在不犹豫的上半场，建议趁年轻把该干的“坏事”都干了吧！事业想尝试什么尽量去尝试，宁愿为自己做过的后悔，要不要为自己没做的遗憾。这个阶段的你，有青春和时间允许你往返跑。青春无悔，生命才能无憾。如果说的每一句话都小心翼翼，每走一步都思前想后，要青春干什么？！
在不后悔的下半场，要想不后悔，就要想清楚你是什么？定位明确、定向清晰、定性明白。如果你是鱼就不要迷恋天空，如果你是鸟就不要痴情海洋。不要让不平衡心理影响你的判断，即使你是飞鱼或者能潜水的海鸟这类的两栖或多起稀有动物，也要明白什么才是你安身立命的属性，什么只是你的爱好兴趣的个性。千万别把自己搞成四不像，是么都是的你，最后发现，你什么都不是！
你我都不是圣人，没办法一眼看清人生的地平线。根据别人的经验，我们可以找自己的方法。尽可能让未来的自己，不为自己后悔！
上树的蚂蚁有很多，而大树有很多分叉，最后爬到顶端的，不是跑得多好看的，也不是跑的最卖力的，而是路走对了的！
第二篇：人们不同的主要是不同的人生阶段
英语101 陈玉敏
人们不同的主要是不同的人生阶段，各自不同的感受。年轻人由于人生的终点于他们遥远而飘渺，他们以为拥有的是生命的永恒。中年人辛苦奔劳、野心冲动，生活把他们历练得粗砺而务实。老年人因已看到了不远的地方就是归宿，他们或悲哀或恐惧或无奈，当然也有人能超越红尘而归于平淡自然。
The main difference of people has different feelings in different life stage. The young people thought they owned eternal life, because the end of life was distant from them. The middle-aged people worked hard with ambition, therefore the real life made them practical and coarse. The elder were sorrow, fear or hopeless, because they have seen their end-result which is not far away from them. Of course, someone can beyond the human society and live simple and natural life.
2生命是什么？生命就是捧在手里的水，从我们拥有生命那一刻起，我们的十指无论怎样拼命地靠拢，怎样小心翼翼，水还是一点一滴地渗漏，这是挡不住的丧失。
What is life? Life is like water which is held in our both hands. From the moment own our lives, water still permeates drop by drop, no matter how desperately and carefully close up our fingers. We can not stop it.. (窦维维)
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人生有不同的地段，青春正如王府井大街这块黄金地段，不仅要开拓，同时也要学会节俭含蓄。青春是经不起挥霍的，它不仅太少太贵而且又薄又脆。青春是回眸醉心的一瞬。
There are different sectors in our lives. Youth is like Wang Fu Jing Avenue which is regarded as a golden sector. It not only needs opening up, but asks us to be thrifty and implicit. Youth does not afford us to squander for the simple reason that it is too little and expensive, too thin and crisp. Youth is an intoxication of the moment. (窦维维)
（豆子倩）中年的发展基础是稳定，中年的大禁在于夸张生命，中年的市场时而会出现假冒青春的品牌，这不仅滑稽而且悲哀。中年的品牌，品质只能是中年。中年的误区是比较，人与人之间是没有可比性的，重要的是建设内心的自信凝重与安详。中年的明智在于干自己想干的，干自己能干的，只要干得好，干什么都好。
The foundation of middle-aged development is stable. It is a prohibition for the middle age to exaggerate his life. Someone in the middle-aged world may behave improperly like youths which make them not only funny but mourning. Characteristic and quality of the middle-aged should be suitable to their age. Comparison is a wrong region for them, for there is no comparability between peoples. The key point lies in the construction of self-confidence, dignity, and sereneness from the inner heart for the middle age. The wisdom of middle age is doing what he wants to do and what he can do. As long as he does well, anything is okay.
（朱信芬）人生最难耐的是老年，一个女人从姑娘到媳妇到老太太，这意味着一个女人的路已走到尽头。男人也是如此。不过一个女人的老年比男人的老年要好过得多，当女人退回到家庭的王国她会依然自信与快乐。而男人往往无所适从，因为他们太看重社会舞台。这时一种可怕的心理补偿及返老还童的心态油然产生，如果这种心态过于强烈，就不仅荒唐而且有损健康，“冬行春令实属不祥”，优雅庄严的老化是老年自爱的选择。
Old age is the hardest time for people, and a woman experiences the process from a girl to a wife and then to an old woman, which means the end of a woman’s life. And so is a man. But a woman’s old age time is
better than that of a man, when a woman go back to the kingdom of family; they are still confident and happy. However, men always become at sea, because they tend to attach more attention to the social life. At this time a terrible feeling of compensation and rejuvenation occur. If the feeling becomes more intensive, then it is not only absurd but also harmful. It is not a good choice that an old man wants to be a little child, living an elegant life is the best choice for the old.
（黄小红）5老年人你们手捧的水及银行里的储蓄都所剩不多，你要节俭生命开支，要小心翼翼关照自己的身体，要尽力收敛你的阳光，让它尽量温暖自己，惟恐不及，能够健康、自理、自得其乐的老人是幸福的。
6老年人最富裕的就是时间，让日子悠悠地过吧，慢慢地会澄清出一种醇香，岁月筛下的是生命的真情，这时，展现在你眼前的是生命的全景图，清新明朗。所有的秘密都已揭开，所有的乌云密布的日子都已云淡风清
The water in your hands and deposit in bank that remain are not so much for elder who should save their life spending, take care of their health and try to take their sunshine that makes them warm, they are happy if they are health self-care and self-content
Old people are wealthy of time. Let time goes by slowly. Then, it will clarify a kind of fragrance. Love is the truth of life. At this moment, what you see is the life panorama, which is pure, fresh and clear. Every secret has opened up, and all of the cloud day will go away.