我的《老友记》观后感

终于看到《老友记》的大结局了，虽然整部戏走的是搞笑路线，但也不乏一些令人生活中的道理。尤其是友情这一块，典型的美国普通人们的无私友谊和相互间的关爱。剧中的六个主人翁各有各的特点，但又因志趣相投而走到了一起并成为了彼此生命中的极其重要的部分——挚友。这六个也像其他人一样，在日常生活里面也会有磕磕碰碰、有争执、也有误解，但更多的时候都能对对方做出宽容理解，他们懂得什么他或她需要关怀。他们都是会随时为对方提供无私帮助的人，而且也从不要求对方回报，因此这六个人就成了好朋友中的挚友。真正的朋友都应当像他们几个那样，在平时生活中相互包容理解关心，能够毫无保留地为对方做出牺牲，成为彼此冬日里的暖阳、六月里的雪碧。真正的朋友是不问出身的，对方贫穷亦或富有都不应该成为双方友谊的评判标准，无论他或她身处事业低谷或顶峰都应该毫无保留地支持对方，无论他或她在爱情上是喜或悲都要给予对方心灵上的鼓励，和自己的挚友一起经历人生的悲欢离合。看最后几集的时候，感性大过理性的我，有些不舍甚至不希望它结束的这么快，而且我还是断断续续的看的，真不敢相信那些一开始就关注《老友记》这部戏的“老友”们是如何告别它的。尽管它是一部肥皂剧，或许旁人会觉得我太过投入了甚至于有些脱离现实，我也承认这是事实。但唯有在剧中或小

说里面我才能在精神上得到暂时的松弛。所有我们生活在现实中的人们都或多或少地在伪装着自己，很多时候都不得不说一些言不由衷的话，做些与心里所想的背道而驰的事，一句话：活得真累。就我自己而言，非常渴望获得像他们六个人那样纯粹的友谊。不过我也还算幸福的，至少我有个很好的家庭，家人们都很好，都能相互关心问候。哪怕有时候会力不从心，可时候我们也是苦中有乐的生活着。

说到剧中的六个人，我每一个都很喜欢，因为他们都是很棒的人，很难说出哪个人是“最”。他们六个人真的很好，乐观地生活着，简直不像是尘世中的凡人。尽管他们也会有各自的小毛病，可这又怎样呢，至少我不会在意，还是会一如既往的喜欢他们支持他们，心善大过一切，心好一切都好。下面就一一说说这六个人，乔伊（Joy）、钱德勒（Chandler）、罗斯（Ross）、菲比（Phoebe）、摩尼卡（Monica）、以及瑞秋（Rachel）。

乔伊（Joy）：乔伊是一个普通的肥皂剧演员，过着工作不稳定但却是六个人里面看似最悠闲的，哪怕后来成为小有名气的明星，也照样过着三天打鱼四天晒网的日子。或许他智商不高，经常表现得像个小孩，尤其在食物方面始终如一的喊着“乔伊从不和别人分享食物”的经典口号，但我个人觉得他也是所有人当中最单纯最乐观派最慷慨最无私最仗义的（好吧看来我最喜欢的人是乔伊了）。他自己事业不顺

或是另外五个有不开心的事，他都会表现得积极乐观，最终把所谓的难关渡过。而他取得些成就或是有什么开心的事，也会毫无保留地和另外五个人分享。不懂他是不是六个人中最有钱的，但只要朋友有困难，不管是不是为钱的事，他都会表现得最有义气。仿佛受委屈的那个人不是别人，而是他自己。

Chandler：钱德这人也是生下来就会笑的人，他的最大毛病也是他最可爱的地方就是特别爱开些让人找不着北的冷笑话，不管别人接受不接受这些东西，反正他就爱干这个。作为Monica的丈夫，他深受着Monica，在剧中他经历了事业上的“过山车”，高潮的他当过公司高管，低谷的他也作过最下层的实习生，但不管处在事业期的哪个阶段，钱德都能坦然自若。这点他跟乔伊和像，因此他们这对傻宝成为最好最臭味相投的兄弟。

Ross:罗斯是个完完全全的恐龙发烧友，打小起就沉迷于这一早已绝迹了的物种，搞得旁人都以为他有什么精神上的问题，更搞笑的是他的父母亲也特逗的人，老钱的忽悠罗斯是个医学奇迹（剧中提到罗斯出身的时候母亲正难产）。成人后的罗斯也确实是个古生物学教授，但他居然也老用PHD作招牌去泡妞，呵呵，原本蛮帅的他是有异性缘的，可就因为他的呆板言辞，而老是让乔伊捡到便宜，自己也无奈地接受成为情场失意者的残酷现实。剧中他和瑞秋是一对开头

好、中间一般，但到最后两个人还是走到一起的恋人（没看到结婚就剧终了）。另外蛮搞笑的是，这三位男主角都是相当的“girls”，在胆量上是彻头彻尾地败给了那三个女人。

Phoebe:菲比是六人中成长环境最不好的一个，母亲自杀、父亲犯事做牢，孪生姐姐又和不来，而且从小在街头混迹而结交了一些“义气”型的各类朋友。她曾在街边弹着吉它卖唱，尽管其嗓音并不动听，但并不为此而气馁，至少她从事着喜欢的事。她也做过电话接线员，尽管时间不长但她也尽心尽责，关心她的每一位客户，哪怕所谓的客户并没做成她的交易。同时菲比也干过钟点按摩工，当然不是那些灰色性质的。或许也正确是因为她丰富的人生经历，也让这个女人有着频繁的感情史，在这一点上只有乔伊能和她“媲美”。不过老天对待这位乐观勤劳的女人还是善意的，她不仅结交了生命中最要好的五位挚友，还在最后和麦克走上了幸福的红地毯。

Monica：这女人会做很多好吃的东西，同时也是一家高级西餐厅的主厨，所以她和钱德勒的家也是六人的主要聚集点之一（另外一个是中央公园咖啡厅），而且由尤其对乔伊而言，这里简直就是他的天堂。另外六人相聚的十年期间，每年都是在这里共同欢度感恩节的。摩尼卡是个极易激动的人，这点她菲比是相似的，但也是个很会替朋友着想的人。但也个小毛病，爱占些小便宜，这点跟他哥哥罗斯相同，但

不管怎样她的老公钱德都会包容并接受。她和瑞秋都是幸福的母亲，而且还是一对龙风胎的母亲，虽然是领养来的，可这丝毫没有让她得到孩子的喜悦感有任何的减少，这一恰恰反应了美国平民的坦然的生活状态。

Richel：剧中敢漂亮最聪明的主角，拥有靓丽的外表和一颗审美的心，她本人在一家时尚公司从事着服装工作。瑞秋很感性，一直深受着罗斯和他们共同的宝贝女儿——爱玛。另外还要说到一点，就是在剧中她和摩尼卡两人像妈妈一样照顾着乔伊，乔伊也太幸福了，智商也许和阿甘差不多，运气也和阿甘一样出奇的好，“傻人有傻福”吧。

剧末当六个人离开他们住了十年的屋子，那个他们相聚相熟相恋的房子里面，他们一起经历了生活中的喜怒哀乐、悲欢离合，同时也构筑了生命中最最重要的感情、最最牢固的友谊。我想在那一刻，所有人都会难过，会留恋的，同样我们这些“老友迷“们也会像他们一样在心里打翻了五味瓶似的，不舍、真不舍啊。但不管怎样，我们要感谢《老友记》给我们这些爱好英语的人带了无数的欢乐和感动，就让我们一起祝福《老友记》以及剧中的六位主角一切都好吧！

20xx年3月16日星期三

第二篇：老友记

<<Friends>>

Last year, I was told that there was an American TV serial called “Friends” that enjoys an overwhelming popularity in America. This semester I had an opportunity to watch it and from that moment on I learned that it had been filmed for ten years. What a great

accomplishment it is!

Indeed, The TV serial “Friends” has been a sensation throughout the world. More and more Chinese audience are exposed to Friends and deeply impressed with the actors’ good performance and the funny stories. I begin to think about the reason why it is so popular with

people; what on earth motivated them to film the serial on end for more than ten years. Before answering the questions, I give a briefing of the story and leading characters.

It is a story in which six of typical young people live a common life. They are Ross, Phoebe, Chandler, Monica, Joey, Rachel. They have

many conflicts in terms of emotion, principles, interest, and social status. Meanwhile, the friendship and love are promoted to a new level. This story actually mirrors our daily life and routines. It also stimulates us to think about how to live a better life and appreciate the beauty of life.

Some tips I gained from this story are as follow:

1. Pursuing love and it is difficult to love a person

Any popular TV serials are all like a small Utopia that not only reflects the reality but are faraway form reality. In this story, the emotion between six people attracts much audience. Their behavior demonstrate young people’s pure attitude towards love. For instance, for ten years the story between the key couple Ross and Rachel moved the hearts of thousands of audience. In the beginning Ross was too shy to express his love to Rachel and then fell in love with Rachel. Later

they broke up and then they reconciled in a short time. Again and again, the love and experience between them bear a remarkable resemblance to common people’s life. Two common persons fell in love after various kinds of arduous tests. Like two children walking on the road, they once tumbled and cried and in the end hold his or her hand to stride forward in life.

2. Cherishing affection among family members and respecting decisions made by parents

Every family has its own problems. It is in the case of the family of six young people. For instance the parents of Ross and Monica are very partial. They take great pride in Ross and pay little attention to Monica. When Phoebe is young, her father left home and her foster mother committed suicide. What’s phoebe’s mother didn’t k know anything about her daughter’s situation. After all, however, parents are parents. One must have deep affection toward his or her parents. Of course, six young people do love their parents.

This story also tells us what attitude towards parents we should have. First of all, don’t expect your parents are saint. Don’t point out directly the demerits of parents. Take Monica for example, she told her mother not to be rigorous. In addition, we should endeavor to avoid conflicts with parents. For instance, on Rachel’s birthday six of them organized two parties in order to save Rachel from meeting her parents.

Besides, we should respect our parents’ decisions. Although Joey didn’t like parents and sister’s behavior, he could nothing about it.

Affection makes us have no choice. You cannot choose your parents or sisters. You must accept them and they are equal to you.

3. Cherishing friendship and trusting friends

Friendship is difficult to establish and easy to destroy. The

phenomenon happened to the six friends. Chandler once chased Joey’s girlfriend and had a romance with Joey’s sister.

They all have various defects. Ross sometimes declares a dissertation like a a sealed book. Chandler is an expert in making jokes. Monica’s cleanliness and emulation is unbearable. Rachel doesn’t do anything and can do nothing but shopping. She even doesn’t know how to dispose waste. What’s more terrible is Phoebe’s voice. She loves singing but no one can afford to listen to.

Nevertheless, we can learn a lot from them. The solid friendship among them doesn’t just result from the demand of plots. The real reason is they know the greatest principles of friendship: trust, tolerance and support. They trust each other and tolerant others’

shortcoming and mistakes, what’s more, they support each other to do what he or she likes to do.

4. Positive attitude toward life and no abuse

The reason why Friends has become a hit among young people lies in their positive attitude toward life. Many people think their way of thinking is very simple and don’t have any corrupt practice. They have strong sense of humor and often make a mistake. However none of them have conspired to harm others. Most jokes in the serial are almost their innocence and exaggerated performance.

Another point is that they don’t have any corrupt practice.

Sometimes they drink a little to make a special atmosphere. Although they support each other, they may quarrel with others about trifling things. At last, however, they embrace each other and reconcile, saying: “I love you”. Sometime you may feel that they are the most qualified citizens.

These tips above are adequate answers to the questions posed before. Of course, a good serial is a product of culture. We know that American is multicultural country that respects liberty and

individualism and independence and so on. This serial presents us a live textbook of contemporary American culture and American lifestyles.

Let’s mine some cultural backgrounds behind the scene.

1. Left Boob

Once, Monica must go to work with fake corsage and searched everywhere for left boob. At that time, Joey said he liked the movie. Obviously, Joey correlated left Boob with the famous movie “My Left Foot” featured by Louis. of course, this was a joke.

2. Hello Kitty

Hello Kitty is a very popular doll in America. Ross wanted to see her sister with broken leg and asked Monica what present she should bring. Monica told her to bring a Hello Kitty. This is a satiric saying.

There are a lot cultural backgrounds behind the scene. You cannot understand the joke if you are not familiar to the American culture. From this point we need strengthen our understanding of American culture. Only adequate background knowledge does enable us to fully enjoy this serial. It is no wonder that we heard many Chinese students don’t understand where the fun in the TV serial is.

The most impressive things at the first sight at the serial may are their funny and wise dialogues. You may perceive the free mind and unique way of thinking behind the American culture. Enjoying the fun in the language, you are definitely moved by their friendship and love. The long Ten years’ “Friends” is miracle in the history of American TV.

I love Joey’s freedom and innocence. Phoebe is charming and full of wisdom. Ross have good education and grace. Rachel’s loveliness and beauty is impressive. Chandler is humorous and nice. Monica is arbitrary but generous.

I have got used to American way of humor. Some scenes are

impressive. For instance, they always embrace others to console them. I feel it is a great way to show affection whether it is love or friendship. I bet that embrace gives you a sense of security. In China, embrace is almost a symbol for love not for friendship. I think Chinese people are shier than Americans. These are different characteristics of different nations.

I begin to love the serial because of in many areas it teaches us a lot, including American social society and lifestyles and even American values.

In conclusion, this TV serial is a masterpiece that influences

numerous people. What experience can we Chinese, especially Chinese young students draw from it? In my view, we can learn three important views.

First, youth is invaluable. As a college student, I see many college students idle away on campus all days and don’t cherish youth days. We should always maintain a state of young mind. We should make good

use of youth time to develop our strengths and to make contribution to our country.

Second, respect parents and cherish friendship. Chinese parents are well known for their dedication for children. However, we children need dedicate more time and effort to accompanying parents.

Friendship is also precious that can lead us to a meaningful life. We should trust friends and cooperate with friends.

Third, Positive attitude is everything. We face a more fierce

competitive society in which we must develop a positive attitude for the rest of our life. Every year, we heard a lot of college students commit suicide because of unbearable stress from study or something else. What a pity they don’t have a positive attitude. Admittedly, they are stressed. I believe that only if you are alive you have hope and your future is bright.