1, do not spend time on the wrong people; life is too short, stay away from those who will take you a
happy person. If someone want to and you together for life, he can offer you a place in my heart, you
won't have to head broken and bleeding. If he always ignore your value, leave him.
You know, those of you when you run round in circles around the scenery are not real friends, real
friends are those you h39ing accompany in your side people.
2、不要逃避问题；正视问题。当然，这不容易。在这个世上，任何人都不可能把他所遇到的问题处理得滴水不漏
，也没必要马上处理，这不是生活的目的。其实，面对挫折，我们会沮丧，会伤心，会受到伤害，会跌倒。正视问题，
和时间一到去学习，去适应，去解决，这才是生活的真正目的。这样，才能塑造一个真正的人。
2, do not evade the problems confronting problems. Of course, this is not easy. In this world, no one
can bring him problems beautifully, also need not treated immediately, this is not the purpose of life.
In fact, in the face of setbacks, we will be depressed, sad, hurt, fall. Face the problem, and the time
to learn, to adapt, to solve the problem, this is the true purpose of life. So, in order to create a
real person.
3、不对自己撒谎；你可以对世上任何一个人撒谎，但不要对自己撒谎。生活只有在我们抓住了机会，才会完善。
这个机会是首要的，也是最难的，它就是对自己诚实。
3, does not lie; you can be on any one person to lie on the earth, but don't lie to yourself. Life only
if we seize the opportunity, will improve. This opportunity is the most important, and
most difficult, it is to be honest with yourself.
4、满足自己的需要；人生最痛快的，莫过于因爱一个人至深而迷失了自己，忘了自己也是不可取代的。所以，帮
助他人的同时，别忘了帮帮自己。如果真有这样一个时刻，你可以随性而为，并做点对己有益的事，那就是现在。
4, to meet their own needs; life is the most happy, than because of love a person to
deep and lose yourself, forget oneself also can not be replaced. So, help others at the same time, don't
forget to help yourself. If there is such a moment, you can own, and do some useful things for yourself,
it is now.
5、做实实在在的自己；我们一生中最大的挑战，就是摆脱别人的影响，做实实在在的自己。有人会一直很漂亮，
有人会一直很聪明，有人会一直很年轻，但他们是他们，你是你。不要改变自己以奢求别人的喜欢。做回自己，有人会
爱上真正的你。
5, do the true self; the biggest challenge in our lives, is to get rid of the influence of others, do
real self. Someone was very beautiful, people would have been very clever, someone will always be young,
but they are, you are. Don't change yourself to expect others to love. Be yourself, someone might fall
in love with the real you.
6、不要纠缠过去；如果你老是回味上一章节，那你就没法翻开生活中新的一页。 The past 6, don't dwell; if you finish a chapter, you couldn't open a new page of life.
7、不要害怕犯错；做了或是做错了，我们仍有收获，不做，我们只会两手空空。每一次成功的背后都有一串失败
的足迹，而每一次的失败又离成功越来越近。卸下包袱，放开双手，该做就做。
7, don't be afraid of making mistakes; do or is wrong, we still have the harvest, do not, we will be
left with nothing whatsoever. Behind every successful has a string of failed footprint, and every
failure is closer and closer to success. Unload the burden, open your hands, just do it.
8、走出错误的阴影；我们可能爱错过人，也可能流错过泪，但不管错得多离谱，有一点是肯定的，错误最终让我
们找到适合我们的人和事。我们都在犯错，我们都在挣扎，甚至为过去而懊 恼。但是错误是错误，挣扎是挣扎，我们
是我们。我们存在的目的就是竭尽所能地过后每一天，规划好未来。其实，生活中的每一次偶然，都是在为即将到来的
下一 刻做准备。
8, through mistakes; we may love the wrong person, may also miss the tears flow, but no matter how
mistaken outrageous, one thing is for sure, mistakes eventually let us find our people and things. We
all make mistakes, we all struggle, even for the past and trouble. But the mistake is, struggle is the
struggle, we are we. Our purpose is to do our best to after every day, planning the future. In fact, the
life of every chance, are looking ahead to the next moment ready.
9、金钱买不到幸福；很多我们渴望的东西都很昂贵。但那些真正让我们满足欣慰的，确实免费的，他们就是爱、
笑声和饱含激情的工作。
9, money can't buy happiness; a lot of the things we desire is very expensive. But those who really let
us meet pleased, really free, they are love, laughter and passionate work.
10、不依赖别人获得快乐；如果你从内心深处对自己不满意，在和别人的长期相处中，你也不会快乐。所以在与他
人分享快乐之前，先铸造坚强的自我。
10, do not rely on others to be happy; if you from the bottom of my heart on their own are not
satisfied, in the long term and others, you will not be happy. So before to share the happiness with
others, casting strong self.
11、不要瞻前顾后；别考虑得太多，否则会造成原本不存在的麻烦。审时度势，果断出击。你没法改变你拒绝面对
遭遇。进步就意味着风险。
11, don't have to; don't think too much, otherwise it will cause does not exist originally. Size up the
situation, decisive attack. You can't change your refusal to face encounter. Progress means risk.
12、别总说自己没准备好；当机会来临，没有谁会做好百分百的准备。因为生活中的天赐良机！
12, do not always say that your not ready; when the opportunity comes, no one will be 100% ready.
Because heaven sent opportunity in life!
13、明智地爱，爱得明智；理智地选择爱情。与其凑合，不如单身。没必要着急。如果是你的，注定会出现在恰当
的时间，和最适合的人，以最好的理由。不要因为孤独去爱，准备好了再去爱。
13, wise to love, to love and be wise; rational choice of love. Its work, as a single. There is no need
to worry. If you are, is bound to come up at the right time, and the most suitable person, with the best
of reasons. Not because of loneliness to love, ready to love again.
14、多结交新朋友，不要因噎废食；我们迟早会认识的，生活中，每一个人与我们相识都是有目的的。一些人是在
考验你，一些人是在利用你，一些人是在教导你。但最重要的是，一些人挖掘了最完善的你。 14, make new friends, don't give up eating for fear of choking; we will know sooner or later, in life,
each person and we know there is a purpose. Some people in the test you, some people are taking
advantage of you, some people are teaching you. But the most important thing is, some people the most
perfect you.
15、不要和所有人竞争；不要担心别人做得比你好。集中精力打破你每天的记录。成功只是一场你和你之间的战斗
。
15 and all the people, do not compete; don't worry about what others are doing better than you.
Concentrate on your daily record breaking. Success is a battle between you and your.
16、不要嫉妒他人；嫉妒是在细数别人的幸福，而对自己不屑一顾。问问自己：我身上有些什么别人没有的东西？
16, don't be jealous of others; jealousy is the breakdown of the happiness of others, and to own a
contemptuous disregard. Ask yourself: what others without me?
17、不要抱怨，也不要沮丧；生活的曲线球因为一个原因而抛出，那就是沿着指向你的方向运行。任何事情的发生
，也许很严重，你可能没法马上觉察，没法马上弄个明白。但是想想曾经的经历， 你会发现，它最终会让你走进一个
更好的地方，遇到一个心悦的人，保持一个良好的心境，或处于一个良好境况。微笑面对吧，让大家都知道，你比昨天
更强大，一 定会的。
17, don't complain, also don't upset; curve ball and throw life for a reason, it is pointing in the
direction you run along. Anything happen, maybe very seriously, you may not immediately aware of, don't
immediately understand. But think about the experience, you'll find out, it will let you into a better
place, meet a happy person, keep a good state of mind, or in a good situation. Smile, let everyone know
that, you are more powerful than yesterday, will.
18、不要心怀怨恨；放下怨恨，轻松生活。否则，你会伤害到自己，而不是你所恨之人。宽恕不是说：你对我所做
的一切很好；而是说：我不会让你的所作所为毁了我的幸福。宽恕是：放 开手，寻找宁静，
解放自己。记住，宽恕不
仅仅是为了他人，更是为了
18, don't grudge; letting go of resentment, easy life. Otherwise, you will hurt yourself, not what you
hate people. Forgiveness is not say: you for everything I do very well; but said: I will not let you
destroy my happiness the doings. Forgiveness is: to let go of his hand, looking for a quiet, the
liberation of their own. Remember, forgiveness is not for others, but for
[eighteenth] do not work when the burden, rather than angry, complain, better to face the positive and
happy, when you work as a life and art, you will enjoy the pleasure of working.
【第十九句】人活着一天，就是有福气，就应该珍惜，人生短短几十年，不要给自己留下更多的遗憾，日出东海落
西山，愁也一天，喜也一天；遇事不钻牛角尖，人也舒坦，心也舒坦。
[nineteenth] people live a day, that is lucky, they should cherish, just a few decades of life, do not
give myself more regret, sunrise East China Sea off the Western Hills, sorrow is also one day, happy
also one day; failing to into a dead end, people are comfortable, the heart is also comfortable