To make love grow
It took me years to learn that the love surrounding our family didn¡¯t just happen . We had to learn about love from one another . In fact , love never just happens . But there is , I think , a climate that is best for love---a way of living that hastens the maturity of this matchless gift . First , love needs time . Perhaps people can fall in love in a moment , but mature love is like a tree , moving slowly from the seed in the ground to the sheltering splendor of its prime . People need time to deepen their affection , to appreciate one another¡¯s differences , to share one another¡¯s joy and grief¡¡
To grow , love needs another , more elusive quality------the ability to let go .
Finally , love needs words to make it real . Without words , quarrels can¡¯t be resolved , resentment can¡¯t come to the surface , and we lose the power to share the meaning of our lives . There are many ways of communicating . The important thing is to acknowledge and express our feelings .
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